Thursday 26/01/2017
Outfit Of The Day
Work#style#winter#clothes#cool#your#style
Grey sweater by Topshop
Suede camel skirt by Topshop
Beige cardigan by Zara
Grey suede boots by TT Bagatt
Love
FlowerGirl :)
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
Outfit Of The Day :)
Outfit Of The day
Casual Fridays#work outfit#cold#wind#winter#be like
Blue velvet bottoms by MindYourStyle
White sneakers by Adidas Stan Smith
Scarf by Stradivarius
Khaki-blue jacket by Zara
Black sweater by Topshop
Love
FlowerGirl
FlowerGirl's Thoughts
For your eyes only I' ll show you my heart, for you when you are lonely and forget who you are, I'm missing half of me when we are apart
Joker#HarleyQ#couple#mad love
Love
FlowerGirl : )
Sunday, January 29, 2017
Flower girl's Thoughts : )
You should take risks in your life and if you fall, you will rise again
Hello beautiful people
It's been a while that I stopped sharing my thoughts with you but I am back now.
We are all human beings, each individual has its own personality going through different phases in our life. Life is a bitch, isn't it? But we should smile to that bitch and and very politely say '' you hit like a bitch'' every time when life knocks us down and calmly get back up.
Remember when our parents used to warn us that we should be careful, not to talk to strangers and not to trust people so easily? That we should choose wisely our friends and be sure about them before letting them in our life; we should not be naive and have a personality.
In this way we started to build our own personality, our own personality's walls. Each individual defines its own walls according its wishes and only the individual gets to decide to let a person to come across them. On the other hand there are people who are more open to others and choose not to have walls. They always give a second chance without thinking about it. Others choose to stay inside their shelves like the turtle and do not let anyone to entrance so easily. Just between you and I, most of the people want to be on the first category; being optimistic, giving people second chances.
But NO. As much as we want to, this cannot happen. We cannot exist without walls, we are human beings. It's in subconscious to protect ourselves, we do it without realizing it because this is how we are learning or at least have been taught to live under certain circumstances.
Slowly slowly this becomes our lifestyle. And so you learn not to let anyone see beyond the surface, nothing else expect what you decide to show. And if it is possible you do not show anything. And time goes by and we get use to this lifestyle that we start to believe that our walls have been built so pretty well that we consider ourselves invincible. We do not care that we do experience certain things, we only care that no one gets to entrance those walls that we have build. We lock our selves in a high tower, with the idea that we do need anyone to rescue us.
So, people come in our lives, we get to know them, and we compare them with those that have managed to break our walls. How many times did we loose the chance to be happy? Did you ever consider it? In the contempt trying to protect ourselves we end up hurting them instead without realizing it. Basically we decide by ourselves not to live. And time goes by. We compare with the past and we let the present go. It is really funny when you thing about how many things you decide not to see, how many emotions we avoid to feel.
And suddenly something total new comes in our life which has nothing to do with what we have so far experienced. You keep trying and trying to compare it with something but you cannot find anything because you know it there isn't. It is not a big deal, nor something remarkable. It is something new. Is like you have create a machine and is programmatic not to accept 100 things but there is a time that a thing would come without even trying to and take everything with it by itself.
What would you do? You get angry with it or with yourself? You find yourself incapable of protecting you or is this just a case that you did not mange to succeed? Tough luck arguing with yourself. You are angry because someone transparent what you have been building all this time. And then the anger goes. Everyone needs time to realize this. You try to behave reasonable, but will you? Others accept it, others refuse it.
Who does not want something new? Yes, fear does exist, but what's the point living inside of a shell? How can you call your life a ''life''? Life knocks you down but still you got the chance to know that you have lived. That you let yourself loose; that you did not chicken down; that did not quit.
Is like each year going to the sea for the first time. You go slowly-slowly, see if you can tolerate the cold. Other run from the moment they go, leave their stuff on the sand and go into the sea, without considering the col. Others need time, trying to use to it. Baby steps every time.
There are and always will be brave people out there; there are those who do not think of anything and rush into whatever. But better be in the category of people who entrance in a gradual pace otherwise there is a danger to get real cold out there.
As hard as it sounds, we should be open to whatever life brings us. I know, is not possible from one day to another, but at least in this way we will get to give a chance to people that are total worth it or perhaps not, but in any case we can never be sure. Besides life itself is a risk. You just keep trying and looking. And if life knocks you down, you will get up back for sure.
Love
Flower Girl :)
Hello beautiful people
It's been a while that I stopped sharing my thoughts with you but I am back now.
We are all human beings, each individual has its own personality going through different phases in our life. Life is a bitch, isn't it? But we should smile to that bitch and and very politely say '' you hit like a bitch'' every time when life knocks us down and calmly get back up.
Remember when our parents used to warn us that we should be careful, not to talk to strangers and not to trust people so easily? That we should choose wisely our friends and be sure about them before letting them in our life; we should not be naive and have a personality.
In this way we started to build our own personality, our own personality's walls. Each individual defines its own walls according its wishes and only the individual gets to decide to let a person to come across them. On the other hand there are people who are more open to others and choose not to have walls. They always give a second chance without thinking about it. Others choose to stay inside their shelves like the turtle and do not let anyone to entrance so easily. Just between you and I, most of the people want to be on the first category; being optimistic, giving people second chances.
But NO. As much as we want to, this cannot happen. We cannot exist without walls, we are human beings. It's in subconscious to protect ourselves, we do it without realizing it because this is how we are learning or at least have been taught to live under certain circumstances.
Slowly slowly this becomes our lifestyle. And so you learn not to let anyone see beyond the surface, nothing else expect what you decide to show. And if it is possible you do not show anything. And time goes by and we get use to this lifestyle that we start to believe that our walls have been built so pretty well that we consider ourselves invincible. We do not care that we do experience certain things, we only care that no one gets to entrance those walls that we have build. We lock our selves in a high tower, with the idea that we do need anyone to rescue us.
So, people come in our lives, we get to know them, and we compare them with those that have managed to break our walls. How many times did we loose the chance to be happy? Did you ever consider it? In the contempt trying to protect ourselves we end up hurting them instead without realizing it. Basically we decide by ourselves not to live. And time goes by. We compare with the past and we let the present go. It is really funny when you thing about how many things you decide not to see, how many emotions we avoid to feel.
And suddenly something total new comes in our life which has nothing to do with what we have so far experienced. You keep trying and trying to compare it with something but you cannot find anything because you know it there isn't. It is not a big deal, nor something remarkable. It is something new. Is like you have create a machine and is programmatic not to accept 100 things but there is a time that a thing would come without even trying to and take everything with it by itself.
What would you do? You get angry with it or with yourself? You find yourself incapable of protecting you or is this just a case that you did not mange to succeed? Tough luck arguing with yourself. You are angry because someone transparent what you have been building all this time. And then the anger goes. Everyone needs time to realize this. You try to behave reasonable, but will you? Others accept it, others refuse it.
Who does not want something new? Yes, fear does exist, but what's the point living inside of a shell? How can you call your life a ''life''? Life knocks you down but still you got the chance to know that you have lived. That you let yourself loose; that you did not chicken down; that did not quit.
Is like each year going to the sea for the first time. You go slowly-slowly, see if you can tolerate the cold. Other run from the moment they go, leave their stuff on the sand and go into the sea, without considering the col. Others need time, trying to use to it. Baby steps every time.
There are and always will be brave people out there; there are those who do not think of anything and rush into whatever. But better be in the category of people who entrance in a gradual pace otherwise there is a danger to get real cold out there.
As hard as it sounds, we should be open to whatever life brings us. I know, is not possible from one day to another, but at least in this way we will get to give a chance to people that are total worth it or perhaps not, but in any case we can never be sure. Besides life itself is a risk. You just keep trying and looking. And if life knocks you down, you will get up back for sure.
Love
Flower Girl :)
Friday, December 2, 2016
Relationships : )
Sometimes you should leave...
Good evening beautiful people!
While sitting on my desk and thinking the whole things the more angry I become. It gets me mad to the whole idea that relationships have become so impoverished. Although it may sounds stupid it is true. People have been taught this way. It does not matter if they like it or not. If they believe that this is the only way to survive the relationships' unending game they will continue to hurt people. In the end they will just count the ''dead bodies''. Because this is what we have become; Victims of people who did not think about nothing and they killed us, shoot us without second thought. And unfortunately those people we have loved them the most.
After so many glasses of wine I can't stop thinking of how many times we have been sacrificed for those people we loved. OK, for some people it might worth it and if we think about it as many times as we want we do not have regrets. But honestly, how many people were worth it for? Few, very few.
How many times did we stay with those people because of love? How many times did we stick on that relationship because of this bonding? Countless. Countless are those times that we instead of walking away from those people we forgave, forgot and moved on. We just ''fuck it''and moved on.
Sound silly, isn't it? But still, we did it. We have put ourselves on that wall and we gave the order to be shout in cold blood. Only because we were afraid of being alone. That motherfucker loneliness, that hurts people and mow hearts. We learned to be afraid of it so we have done unthinkable things to ourselves. Things that we used to swear that we never do.
Although we have said that we will not repeat the same mistakes of the past we did the exact same like real assholes. We were manipulated in awful ways, inexcusable choices. We have been relegated, to not be count and we have accepted it. And all these because we have done the mistake to love them. In the end love is an illness that kills you. It passes from one person to another, like epidemic kind of. Does not give space for improvement, you just count the days. One month, two years, six years. In the end you will die and you know it already.
For some death is total worth it. Sweet death- sweet as it gets. Others see you dying and they die with you. Others are happy because they lost counting dead bodies. Because you don't die only once. This is the drill. But you should end it. You won't last much more. At some point you just stop breathing.
Leave though before it is too late. At some point you should leave. Do not postpone just because loving somebody is a huge motive to keep a person in your life while he has done so bad things to you. Obviously it is difficult but it is better an end with pain, rather pain without an end.
Do not excuse people, do not forgive so easily. Do not become the shadow for no one. You were born to be unique, to stand out, do not condemn your self so as not be alone. If the other person can not handle the fact that you are unique do not give him so easy. Do not let no one to degrade you; you exist for you and for those you love. For those who worth your love, who have fought to earn it. Those that may have suffered, toiled but in the end they have earned it.
Acknowledge that the heart is like an unrestrained child in a toy store; It wants everything, it loves everything. Tame your heart; Use it to love the simple toys, teddy bears, trains. Not the Barbies or the porcelain dolls which once they break you realize they are empty.
Acknowledge that whatever has no solution, can be cut in a minute and whatever you can not do, means that you did not try enough to succeed it. Because love is not a motive to keep someone in your life. It is a reason, but it is not the only one.
Love. Flower Girl. x
Good evening beautiful people!
While sitting on my desk and thinking the whole things the more angry I become. It gets me mad to the whole idea that relationships have become so impoverished. Although it may sounds stupid it is true. People have been taught this way. It does not matter if they like it or not. If they believe that this is the only way to survive the relationships' unending game they will continue to hurt people. In the end they will just count the ''dead bodies''. Because this is what we have become; Victims of people who did not think about nothing and they killed us, shoot us without second thought. And unfortunately those people we have loved them the most.
After so many glasses of wine I can't stop thinking of how many times we have been sacrificed for those people we loved. OK, for some people it might worth it and if we think about it as many times as we want we do not have regrets. But honestly, how many people were worth it for? Few, very few.
How many times did we stay with those people because of love? How many times did we stick on that relationship because of this bonding? Countless. Countless are those times that we instead of walking away from those people we forgave, forgot and moved on. We just ''fuck it''and moved on.
Sound silly, isn't it? But still, we did it. We have put ourselves on that wall and we gave the order to be shout in cold blood. Only because we were afraid of being alone. That motherfucker loneliness, that hurts people and mow hearts. We learned to be afraid of it so we have done unthinkable things to ourselves. Things that we used to swear that we never do.
Although we have said that we will not repeat the same mistakes of the past we did the exact same like real assholes. We were manipulated in awful ways, inexcusable choices. We have been relegated, to not be count and we have accepted it. And all these because we have done the mistake to love them. In the end love is an illness that kills you. It passes from one person to another, like epidemic kind of. Does not give space for improvement, you just count the days. One month, two years, six years. In the end you will die and you know it already.
For some death is total worth it. Sweet death- sweet as it gets. Others see you dying and they die with you. Others are happy because they lost counting dead bodies. Because you don't die only once. This is the drill. But you should end it. You won't last much more. At some point you just stop breathing.
Leave though before it is too late. At some point you should leave. Do not postpone just because loving somebody is a huge motive to keep a person in your life while he has done so bad things to you. Obviously it is difficult but it is better an end with pain, rather pain without an end.
Do not excuse people, do not forgive so easily. Do not become the shadow for no one. You were born to be unique, to stand out, do not condemn your self so as not be alone. If the other person can not handle the fact that you are unique do not give him so easy. Do not let no one to degrade you; you exist for you and for those you love. For those who worth your love, who have fought to earn it. Those that may have suffered, toiled but in the end they have earned it.
Acknowledge that the heart is like an unrestrained child in a toy store; It wants everything, it loves everything. Tame your heart; Use it to love the simple toys, teddy bears, trains. Not the Barbies or the porcelain dolls which once they break you realize they are empty.
Acknowledge that whatever has no solution, can be cut in a minute and whatever you can not do, means that you did not try enough to succeed it. Because love is not a motive to keep someone in your life. It is a reason, but it is not the only one.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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