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Hello out there! It's me!

 

 

 

 

It's Monday again. Another week. Another crazy day to begin; Let's breath: inhale-exhale, inhale-exhale, inhale-exhale. And continue working. Life goes on no matter how it is. We have to be strong and face our problems, or difficulties on our way but remember: we are alive. We have to keep going no matter what. Sad, depressed, unsatisfied with our work or personal life no one else expect you and only can help yourself. Life is short people. We may be alive now but who knows the tomorrow what can bring us. And we still can breath. Don't forget that. Keep trying no matter what you are facing now. Have faith on you and things will work out. Never self pity; Always have self-confidence; Be strong and patient; Patient people get at the end what they deserve the most. Sometimes you get tired, I know, waiting and waiting without any outcome. But still there is no reason to quit. Your day will come at some point.

 

 

 

Have a good week.

 

 

 

 

 

Love. Flower Girl. x

Pic Of The Day : )

                                                        Friday 23/09/2016



It's Friday ! YAY ! And the look today at work is casual but always fashionable. Fashion is my drug; It makes me feel better and I express my self through it; like a mood-camouflage. Shine bright like a diamond even if you are dying inside.

 

 

 

Tee by Body Talk

 

Black n white dungarees by Zara

 

Velvet choker by Asos

 

Nike trainers

 

Ray Ban sunnies

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. Flower Girl. x

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              Good Morning people : )

TGIF! YAY! Finally this week is almost over. Few more hours in the office and we are out of here. It's been really crazy from the morning. What is wrong with people today? They behave like lunatics, have no manners, shouting over silly things and demanding all the time.

Is this how they have been brought up by their parents? Or they have lost their sanity? I don't understand. A lady should be a lady. And a gentleman should be a gentleman. Where are the good guys have gone? Is there a lady out there? Is there a gentleman at all nowadays? A nice guy with good manners knows how to treat to a lady. Respect and appreciate her for all the good things that she can offer to him. No. Unfortunately there are no gentlemen. In fact there are no men; only boys and girls fooling around and taking everything for granted.

A woman when she knows that her man loves her can offer him everything. She is his queen, standing next to him and supporting him on good and bad days. And he is there for her listening to her worries, hug her and say to her that everything is going to be O K.
Is it so hard to put your ego on the side and try for once to behave descent? For the name of love! Why do people keep putting their ego above everything else? It is not their ego that is going to support and love them but their soul mate. It is not their ego that is going to grab their hand on bad times and support them. Why are people afraid so much of commitment? Why don't people want to evolve themselves and instead choose to stay the same for their entire life?
Being alone it may help us to find ourselves but being alone for a long time it is not healthy for sure. You get stuck to a model that you are better without commitments, safe on your own world not to get hurt but honestly is it worth it? The only thing that you will gain is misery because of loneliness. Friends are good company but nothing can not fulfil the space, the whole of emptiness of not being loved. Love gives you motivation to move forward and not backwards. And therefore makes you a better person; with manners; you get mature within the relationship because you have to keep trying; you have motivation to do things and you know that person will back you up no matter what; and accepts you for who you are and still, you will keep doing your very best to make a better version of yourself because of that person.

Unfortunately people only realise what they had after loosing it; either a relationship or a person. But it is too late. The ones that left move on and the ones that realised once what they did they will be fighting with their own demons and most probably they will never move on although they would say the opposite. Because they will be always wondering what would be like if...

So, my friends, better act from your heart, be kind, be genuine and have confidence on yourself.  AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OK.

Have a good one and don't forget to be a lady. Always.


Love. Flower Girl. x

Relationships :)

                                                                      
                                                      6 lies about ''healthy relationships''



Most of the times we hear from friends, colleagues and our environment in general what a ''perfect relationship'' should be. Sure, certain behaviours, gestures standards that you may to have for a ''perfect and healthy relationship'' are O K and we agree. Did you ever consider though that most of your beliefs and thoughts are just myths and are perfectly normal to every relationship? Most of the couples are facing problems and difficulties. Understanding and realising that relationships are not perfect and we based our models on stupid myths and ''wrong'' beliefs, is the very first step to a healthy relationship; we set our self free and live more the present:

''Conflicts show that the relationship is not healthy''

Well, I believe is the opposite. This means that the problems within the relationship are being oppressed and the couple does not discuss them. Letting the problems coming out and have a conversation about them, makes the relationship much stronger.


''For a happy and healthy relationship you should have the same interests''

Having the same interests is very helpful organising your weekend program but does not mean that it has be a rule as well. What counts the most is the mutual love and support for each other that will connect you and create a dynamic duo (even if he wants to go to his favourite rock band when he was a teenager and you prefer to go on a fancy restaurant on the city centre).


''Both should have the same opinion/view on everything''

Of course it is a positive thing sharing the same beliefs and ideas on certain matters. But again that does not mean that you should always agree on everything. Do not forget that there are happy couples out there that have different religion/cultural/political beliefs. However mutual respect and acceptance of different opinion/beliefs of the other makes the relationship stronger.


''There are certain standards that everyone should follow to have a healthy relationship''

Is this true though? We are all different as individuals, with our own personality so why should our relationships should not be the same? It is obvious therefore that there is not a certain model to a healthy relationship. Each of us has his/her own fears, dreams, expectations, needs, past, experiences. For this and only particular reason we should act according to our own very best and our partner that we are in a relationship because the relationship is between two persons and not more.

''There will always be the flirt''

At the early stages of the relationship sure there is flirt and love, which last couple of years but the truth is that it faints within the years. It is not something that will last for ever or stays intense as it was at the beginning.


''If you are with the right person, you should not have to try hard on the relationship''

Everyone is extremely complicated, so when two people co exist everything becomes even more complicated. Relationships, romantic or not, are a ''daily'' test to help us to evolve and mature. The challenges that we face within the relationship helps us to see and work our self better, so as to become much more mature day by day and therefore better human beings for our sake and our partner as well.



Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                  Is there true love after all?

I see couples that make it; they get old together after facing so many difficulties on their marriage. It is not an easy job after all, being married; I believe is the hardest one. You share your whole life with someone good or bad days, rich or poor; you have each other no matter what. But sometimes you won't make it. Sometimes people fall apart from each other; they stop working on their relationship/marriage. But is this true love? Quitting on someone that you suppose to love?

A recent example is Brad's Pitt and Angelina's Jolie divorce. They have 6 children together - 3 adopted and 3 biological. When she was sick Brad tried so hard to give her strength to face the surgery procedure, she lost weight and was constantly nervous but he was there for her, according to his letter. She, now, on the other hand claims that Pitt is dangerous for their children's safety and that he has cheated on her. What is the truth beyond all this these 2 only know. But it is really sad how 2 people can forget everything, what they shared, and most importantly their love for each other.
How can you be so madly in love with someone and one day quit and forget that love? I guess it was not true love.

When you love someone you want to be better and you try to be better so as your partner/husband/wife to be proud of you. This is true love. You just don't quit your soul mate and say I am  no match for you; I am no good for you; No it does work like that. You keep fighting to be better and the love that you share for each other makes you strong to keep going. And if you fall you know that person will grab your hand and say to you ''Everything is going to be O K'' and will hug you. And that makes you on keep going. To be a better version of yourself. Love is the best medicine for everything. It heals every pain in your soul; Gives you motivation to do things; And you know that you are not alone; there is someone in this crazy world out there that loves and supports you in every single step that you make. This is true love for me. But I don't know if it does really exist anymore. When the person that you love quits on you it makes me question and it is really sad. When you only fight and your soul mate not, you are devastated.


People are madly in love, you see them everywhere being affectionate with each other and then pump! Divorce, break ups! And you are wondering: Where has the love gone? It wasn't true love after all. Because when you truly love someone, madly deeply in love you can not imagine living the rest of your life with out that person. You can not imagine your life not seeing his/her face never again, not hearing his/her voice, not hugging him/her on that couch that you were watching T.V. together and having your own kind of conversations; silly, funny conversations. How can you live on without these things? Without your soul mate?

I guess there is no true love nowadays ...



''Love is a soul living in two bodies''.

''When you love someone you know it because you can not express in words what you are feeling for the other person''.

''Immature love is when you say ''I love you because I need you'' - ''Mature love is when you say ''I need you because I love you''.


''When you don't feel love is for ever for the other person, then it has never started''











Love. Flower Girl. x

Pic Of The Day : )

                                                    Outfit Of The Day : )




Mid of September but still hot.. Summer is not over yet; let's enjoy it while it last by chilling at a café with a good company and forget for a bit work matters and whatever else bothers or makes us sad, shall we?! Life is short! Do whatever makes you happy and stop worrying too much.

 

 

 

 

 Crochet white dress by Mango

 

Black lace up heels by Sante Shoes

 

 Pink velvet choker by Asos

 

Oversized sunnies by B-Face

 

 

Low up chignon hairstyle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. Flower Girl. x

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Good Morning :)

 

 

 

 

 

Mid of the week, the day started again with the usual tempo like yesterday; crazy people asking for stupid things but I keep smiling. There is no reason to feel negative because others feel miserable, stressed over everything; No, we do not need that cloud in our life as well. Delete those people; pretend they do no exist and be happy. Sure, you are tired, I am. But we still have to keep going; find things to do; focus on them; put your energy on your goals; Always remember you have the privilege to live so live. And keep dreaming; one day you will wake up and see that you manage to fulfil your dreams even if you came across on obstacles.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. Flower Girl. x