FlowerGirl#Inspo
Thursday, October 13, 2016
FlowerGirl's Thoughts : )
Why Crying A Lot Means You're Mentally Tough
Some of history's toughest people have openly cried - often in public, such as George Washington, Obama and Abraham Lincoln. And why wouldn't they? According to psychologists, crying is actually a sign of mental strength.
2. Crying Shows A Lack of Concern For Social Expectations
Men who cry are stigmatized as weak and unmanly. When women cry, they are often called crazy and dramatic. Crying despite stigmatization shows that you are not afraid to put social convention aside if it means dealing with your overwhelming emotions. That's strength, my friend. feel so.
3. Crying Makes You a Leader
Let's say you and a group receive some upsetting news. If you decide to be strong and shed the first tear, the other will go ''Hey, I guess it is okay to show emotion right now''. Therefore by openly crying, you liberate people around you.
Congrats, you 've just made yourself a leader - one that people won't fear judgement from.
4. Crying Shows That You Know Hot Offload Stress Before It Breaks You
For many people, crying relieves built up stress that could easily become damaging if not dealt with properly. I believe so as well. So, I do believe that strength is about much more than hardiness. So a strong person is like a good structure that relieves stress effectively before it becomes destructive.
So yes, whenever you find yourself crying is a sign of mental strength. If you feel like crying then cry; you will feel much better, confront your emotions and deal with the current situation becoming even stronger. At the end of day we will always find ourselves fighting over ''demons''.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
Some of history's toughest people have openly cried - often in public, such as George Washington, Obama and Abraham Lincoln. And why wouldn't they? According to psychologists, crying is actually a sign of mental strength.
- Crying Means You're Not Afraid of Emotions
2. Crying Shows A Lack of Concern For Social Expectations
Men who cry are stigmatized as weak and unmanly. When women cry, they are often called crazy and dramatic. Crying despite stigmatization shows that you are not afraid to put social convention aside if it means dealing with your overwhelming emotions. That's strength, my friend. feel so.
3. Crying Makes You a Leader
Let's say you and a group receive some upsetting news. If you decide to be strong and shed the first tear, the other will go ''Hey, I guess it is okay to show emotion right now''. Therefore by openly crying, you liberate people around you.
Congrats, you 've just made yourself a leader - one that people won't fear judgement from.
4. Crying Shows That You Know Hot Offload Stress Before It Breaks You
For many people, crying relieves built up stress that could easily become damaging if not dealt with properly. I believe so as well. So, I do believe that strength is about much more than hardiness. So a strong person is like a good structure that relieves stress effectively before it becomes destructive.
So yes, whenever you find yourself crying is a sign of mental strength. If you feel like crying then cry; you will feel much better, confront your emotions and deal with the current situation becoming even stronger. At the end of day we will always find ourselves fighting over ''demons''.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )
Between Lines
Good morning beautiful people.
Let's talk about falling in love and its negative dimensions. Come on be honest there aren't any positive ones.
Yes, I am referring to that toxic feeling which one moment you feel alive and happy and the other moment it deaden every brain cell that moves, talks and behaves as a normal person because it keeps coming in your head now and then.
I am referring again to that horrible feeling that makes you feel like a stupid and insufficient person since your self-confidence is being stolen. You find yourself difficult to deal with simple things and you feel all the time weird, without understanding this weirdness if is either negative or positive; you only understand that you had peace before this and now it annoys you.
You are lost on your own words and lack of your sense of humour which you were so good at before. You see him/her and you are thinking ''Should I say hi or ignore him/her?'' because you are not yet ready to say hi to each other like normal persons, you are jealous people who you don't know, you are being paranoid and acting weird with no reason at all.
You know that you have messed everything up, big time. You realise this every time you are being isolated and you keep wondering ''Should I have done this instead of that?'', if he/she saw you pretending that you did not see her/him, if he understood that you still like him because you said hiiiiii with too many iiiis and these kind of things.
O K, you realise that you don't have no salvation in real life, you say ''f*** it , I will text him/her''. And you play with messages. But you find yourself from no 1 Champion Leagues taking an amateur's B role.
Because you don't know what does it mean stroked by love if you did not write 52.987 messages and deleted them; A simple ''How are you?'' And don't tell me that you are clueless. I am talking about those shitty moments wondering if you will sound too boring reading your text message and start torturing your self what he/she will think; ''here we go this a**hole'' or ''what does the stupid know want from me'', if he/she does not care, say something not sounding too available or don't text at all.
And you write and you delete, and rewrite and delete again until you are too tired and you don't send anything. You keep your self busy with something else but still you can't stop yourself from those horrible thoughts ''what if I have sent those messages? what could have happened?''. You think about it thoroughly, is just a simple ''How are you?'' but still for you is like you are running 10 hours.
Things of course take the whole opposite outcome from the desirable one when you decide to text something else rather than a simple ''How are you?''. A joke, tease him/her, a complaint perhaps something else anyways. At this current situation you forget syntax, grammar and everything else and your stomach is too tight waiting for that (reply) pop up light.
Things are not easier either way if he/she texts first. Thus he/she will give you the light to begin, but then again you will be in agony if you have replied correct or wrong, too fast or too late. Instant reply? No, he/she will think that you have nothing to do. Reply later? No, but when though? Not too late in case he/she thinks you don't care. Should I put a dot or exclamation mark? Too strict? Make it a bit mysterious? Rewrite, delete again, emoticons? traps; F*** it, there is no salvation whatever you do.
Why do you feel like this? And I will answer to you - Because being madly, deeply in love with someone is the most ill indulgent in the world and in rare cases if is real love will spread in you like a loving cholera; you have the obligation to let it do its thing and ravage you in sweatiness, got it? You should understand that people do not fall in love easy, they don't feel anything in easiness anymore. Don't let your hesitation to deny ''the colour'' in your daily life.
You may look as fool as you may believe but maybe the other side feels the same as well and maybe she/he admires your courage and your persistence contrasting next to his/her diffidence, in the case of course the love is mutual on both sides. But in case it is not, you should keep sending and expressing yourself, no matter how many times you will press the f***** back space button which has ravaged so many feelings from computers; and what about those people who have not sent? What did they understand?
Keep sending until your fingers stop from shaking, or until you are blocked or from interlocutory. And stop deleting. A little bird told me that guts are the new black.
Love. Flower Girl. x
Good morning beautiful people.
Let's talk about falling in love and its negative dimensions. Come on be honest there aren't any positive ones.
Yes, I am referring to that toxic feeling which one moment you feel alive and happy and the other moment it deaden every brain cell that moves, talks and behaves as a normal person because it keeps coming in your head now and then.
I am referring again to that horrible feeling that makes you feel like a stupid and insufficient person since your self-confidence is being stolen. You find yourself difficult to deal with simple things and you feel all the time weird, without understanding this weirdness if is either negative or positive; you only understand that you had peace before this and now it annoys you.
You are lost on your own words and lack of your sense of humour which you were so good at before. You see him/her and you are thinking ''Should I say hi or ignore him/her?'' because you are not yet ready to say hi to each other like normal persons, you are jealous people who you don't know, you are being paranoid and acting weird with no reason at all.
You know that you have messed everything up, big time. You realise this every time you are being isolated and you keep wondering ''Should I have done this instead of that?'', if he/she saw you pretending that you did not see her/him, if he understood that you still like him because you said hiiiiii with too many iiiis and these kind of things.
O K, you realise that you don't have no salvation in real life, you say ''f*** it , I will text him/her''. And you play with messages. But you find yourself from no 1 Champion Leagues taking an amateur's B role.
Because you don't know what does it mean stroked by love if you did not write 52.987 messages and deleted them; A simple ''How are you?'' And don't tell me that you are clueless. I am talking about those shitty moments wondering if you will sound too boring reading your text message and start torturing your self what he/she will think; ''here we go this a**hole'' or ''what does the stupid know want from me'', if he/she does not care, say something not sounding too available or don't text at all.
And you write and you delete, and rewrite and delete again until you are too tired and you don't send anything. You keep your self busy with something else but still you can't stop yourself from those horrible thoughts ''what if I have sent those messages? what could have happened?''. You think about it thoroughly, is just a simple ''How are you?'' but still for you is like you are running 10 hours.
Things of course take the whole opposite outcome from the desirable one when you decide to text something else rather than a simple ''How are you?''. A joke, tease him/her, a complaint perhaps something else anyways. At this current situation you forget syntax, grammar and everything else and your stomach is too tight waiting for that (reply) pop up light.
Things are not easier either way if he/she texts first. Thus he/she will give you the light to begin, but then again you will be in agony if you have replied correct or wrong, too fast or too late. Instant reply? No, he/she will think that you have nothing to do. Reply later? No, but when though? Not too late in case he/she thinks you don't care. Should I put a dot or exclamation mark? Too strict? Make it a bit mysterious? Rewrite, delete again, emoticons? traps; F*** it, there is no salvation whatever you do.
Why do you feel like this? And I will answer to you - Because being madly, deeply in love with someone is the most ill indulgent in the world and in rare cases if is real love will spread in you like a loving cholera; you have the obligation to let it do its thing and ravage you in sweatiness, got it? You should understand that people do not fall in love easy, they don't feel anything in easiness anymore. Don't let your hesitation to deny ''the colour'' in your daily life.
You may look as fool as you may believe but maybe the other side feels the same as well and maybe she/he admires your courage and your persistence contrasting next to his/her diffidence, in the case of course the love is mutual on both sides. But in case it is not, you should keep sending and expressing yourself, no matter how many times you will press the f***** back space button which has ravaged so many feelings from computers; and what about those people who have not sent? What did they understand?
Keep sending until your fingers stop from shaking, or until you are blocked or from interlocutory. And stop deleting. A little bird told me that guts are the new black.
Love. Flower Girl. x
Pic Of The Day : )
Outfit Of The Day
Mid of the week!
Good vibes, feeling the energy that the week is nearly in its end. And we can't keep smiling.
Mid of the week!
Good vibes, feeling the energy that the week is nearly in its end. And we can't keep smiling.
Leather camel skirt by Topshop
C-thru black blouse by Marks & Spencer
Lace up pointed heels by Zara
Love. Flower Girl. x
Wednesday, October 12, 2016
Inspiration : )
God made us to be together even though we end up being apart
God created nature; then decided to create human beings. He created Adam but he noticed that Adam was feeling alone so he created Eva to be his match.
World was done so as to share beds, kisses, hugs even cigarettes. Moments, same cup of coffees, songs even the mornings.
To hold my hand and spirit my morale when I am sinking and suffering, to hear and support you in every single way when you are in pain. Light your cigarette up when your hands are cold and being proud on your smallest and non important success.
''That's why the world has being created my dear; to find each other'' and not being alone.
The prolonged solitary period - even if it's by choice - makes people aggressive and rumples them.
You chose to isolate yourself from love and from thousands unexploited feelings, forgotten in your last ''draw''.
And the worst of all you left them in there and you don't know how and when you should use them.
Loneliness, for your records, is the safest, most secure and easiest way. You choose it, barricading yourself behind from feelings, thoughts, and even from people in order not to expose yourself and be back in the game.
You have on one hand the invincible ego, the other hand the wrong choice years ago that somehow ''emasculated'' you and stopped you from doing whatever you wanted to do and that cheating that destroyed your trust that you used to have in people.
Yes, being with someone takes to have guts. Guts and intestines. Courage, stubbornness and willingness. Maybe is not for the many after all.
But it always worth of trying, at any price.
World happened so as to be together even if we are apart.
The path is always more interesting than the destination.
I only wish that we will never find ourselves so alone that we will be compromised what ever we find in our path.
We used to deny to sale our selves but now they have become the ideal standards and at the end of the day we find ourselves waking up one morning and turning our back on the other side to avoid the good morning kiss.
World did not happen to stay alone.
It happened so as we to be together, insanely in love. Courageous, bold and insatiable.
To define obstacles, to prove those who did not believe to us that are liars, and become one of each other's world.
''Give me your hand and we will walk together''.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
God created nature; then decided to create human beings. He created Adam but he noticed that Adam was feeling alone so he created Eva to be his match.
World was done so as to share beds, kisses, hugs even cigarettes. Moments, same cup of coffees, songs even the mornings.
To hold my hand and spirit my morale when I am sinking and suffering, to hear and support you in every single way when you are in pain. Light your cigarette up when your hands are cold and being proud on your smallest and non important success.
''That's why the world has being created my dear; to find each other'' and not being alone.
The prolonged solitary period - even if it's by choice - makes people aggressive and rumples them.
You chose to isolate yourself from love and from thousands unexploited feelings, forgotten in your last ''draw''.
And the worst of all you left them in there and you don't know how and when you should use them.
Loneliness, for your records, is the safest, most secure and easiest way. You choose it, barricading yourself behind from feelings, thoughts, and even from people in order not to expose yourself and be back in the game.
You have on one hand the invincible ego, the other hand the wrong choice years ago that somehow ''emasculated'' you and stopped you from doing whatever you wanted to do and that cheating that destroyed your trust that you used to have in people.
Yes, being with someone takes to have guts. Guts and intestines. Courage, stubbornness and willingness. Maybe is not for the many after all.
But it always worth of trying, at any price.
World happened so as to be together even if we are apart.
The path is always more interesting than the destination.
I only wish that we will never find ourselves so alone that we will be compromised what ever we find in our path.
We used to deny to sale our selves but now they have become the ideal standards and at the end of the day we find ourselves waking up one morning and turning our back on the other side to avoid the good morning kiss.
World did not happen to stay alone.
It happened so as we to be together, insanely in love. Courageous, bold and insatiable.
To define obstacles, to prove those who did not believe to us that are liars, and become one of each other's world.
''Give me your hand and we will walk together''.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
Fashion : )
The key items for an elegant outfit
The change of season, from Summer to Fall, therefore makes us to renew our wardrobe. Fashion trends such as velvet and lace are a must-have. You can wear them from morning at work till night for a drink with the girls; they make your outfit unique and chic and no need to change your clothes.
A pleated skirt with a lingerie top:
You can wear this combination in the morning as an office style matching with a nice blazer, and in the night after office with friends or colleagues for drinks.
A white Victorian shirt:
Makes your daily outfit looking that you came from a different era, especially if you wear on top of it a velvet blazer having an impressive outcome.
A black dress:
It is always an ideal choice for every occasion; there are in the market budge of black dresses in different and meticulous style. One alternative that I find very nice is a black turtleneck asymmetric dress on the bottom.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
The change of season, from Summer to Fall, therefore makes us to renew our wardrobe. Fashion trends such as velvet and lace are a must-have. You can wear them from morning at work till night for a drink with the girls; they make your outfit unique and chic and no need to change your clothes.
A pleated skirt with a lingerie top:
You can wear this combination in the morning as an office style matching with a nice blazer, and in the night after office with friends or colleagues for drinks.
A white Victorian shirt:
Makes your daily outfit looking that you came from a different era, especially if you wear on top of it a velvet blazer having an impressive outcome.
A black dress:
It is always an ideal choice for every occasion; there are in the market budge of black dresses in different and meticulous style. One alternative that I find very nice is a black turtleneck asymmetric dress on the bottom.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
Tuesday, October 11, 2016
Pic Of The Day : )
Outfit Of The Day
Tuesday again - I hate Tuesdays- but let's talk about fashion! This will cheer up us, right!
Tuesday again - I hate Tuesdays- but let's talk about fashion! This will cheer up us, right!
Chiffon/linen nude blouse with sequin details by Cortefiel
Linen white skirt by Mango
Nude pointed heels by Flashback
Low chignon hairstyle
Love. Flower Girl. x
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