Purple/blue sweater by Moda
Leather black skirt by Lipsy London
Ankle boots by Nine West
Over knee tights by Calzedonia
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Monday, March 13, 2017
Sunday, March 12, 2017
Relationships : )
7 Essential Things That Men Find Attractive About A Woman
A lot of the girls imagine that men only check out bodily appearance. But, things men look about a woman isn't really the nice look and physique. Even though body look is a very first thing they will notice, however, if you are looking at engaging in a sincere relationship, fantastic look about a woman. Girls, it's period that you should choose the secret to some man't heart.
A lot of the girls imagine that men only check out bodily appearance. But, things men look about a woman isn't really the nice look and physique. Even though body look is a very first thing they will notice, however, if you are looking at engaging in a sincere relationship, fantastic look about a woman. Girls, it's period that you should choose the secret to some man't heart.
- Spontaneous - That is one of several points men search for their lovers. Capability to look with all the motion and expressing off spontaneous sides helps make a man happy.
- Affection - Almost everything for men begins with touching. Showing your affection to help men is an extremely comfortable and welcoming character. Kiss your own man randomly, position his hands and fingers, he will really love it. The feelings of becoming needed and liked will be the things men seem in the relationship.
- The dress you wear - It's caustic when you wear small skirts and visit clubs, you''ll looks very hot and all of men will likely have an eyes on you. But a lot of the males don't like bash girls as they imagine that all those women have dramas, and tolerating a dram is a most of annoying thing for men.
- Good driving skills - It's right that males usually make joy of women't driving tactics but almost them could agree a great driving skill is valuable for women.
- Their time - This is actually the most important factor in each relationship. Communicating distance can damage every thing. It's not only men but all of us love it whenever somebody requires time from their very busy schedules. Devote some good time with the sweetheart, that's all they want.
- Confidence - Confidence is an answer to a lot of facts and impressing men is a of these. Sensible and self-confident women are everyone's much-loved. There's surely some things sexy regarding a self-confident woman also it definitely has nothing to complete with your ex looks.
- An independent woman - A lot of women imagine that men would like weak women, so as to think much better and smarter ahead of them, but it's definitely wrong. True men need a woman who's her personal life aside from the romantic relationship. A good guy isn't intimidated by their's wife's earnings and successes.
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Leather palazzo bottoms by 3S Boutique
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Saturday, March 11, 2017
Relationships : )
Closing Cycles
One always has to know when a stage comes to an end.
If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters - whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.
Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?
You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life turned into dust, just like that.
But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilty or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.
That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts - and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much your suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no staring date, decisions are always put off waiting for the ''ideal moment''. Before a new chapter is begun, the one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person - nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.
Paulo Coelho
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FlowerGirl : )
One always has to know when a stage comes to an end.
If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through. Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters - whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.
Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents' house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?
You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened. You can tell yourself you won't take another step until you find out why certain things that were so important and so solid in your life turned into dust, just like that.
But such an attitude will be awfully stressing for everyone involved: your parents, your husband or wife, your friends, your children, your sister, everyone will be finishing chapters, turning over new leaves, getting on with life, and they will all feel bad seeing you at a standstill.
None of us can be in the present and the past at the same time, not even when we try to understand the things that happen to us. What has passed will not return: we cannot for ever be children, late adolescents, sons that feel guilty or rancor towards our parents, lovers who day and night relive an affair with someone who has gone away and has not the least intention of coming back.
Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.
That is why it is so important (however painful it may be!) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home. Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts - and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.
Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Nobody plays this life with marked cards, so sometimes we win and sometimes we lose. Do not expect anything in return, do not expect your efforts to be appreciated, your genius to be discovered, your love to be understood. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much your suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.
Nothing is more dangerous than not accepting love relationships that are broken off, work that is promised but there is no staring date, decisions are always put off waiting for the ''ideal moment''. Before a new chapter is begun, the one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back. Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person - nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.
Closing cycles. Not because of pride, incapacity or arrogance, but simply because that no longer fits your life. Shut the door, change the record, clean the house, shake off the dust.
Paulo Coelho
Love
FlowerGirl : )
Friday, March 10, 2017
Relationships : )
4 Things of Couples That Last
In a lasting relationship, couples demonstrate their love by doing things every day to support each other. Although a loving, committed couple can make a relationship look easy, it actually takes a little bit of work.
Linda and Charlie Bloom, authors of Secrets of Great Marriages, write about lasting couples that over time ''the experience of nurturing the relationship no longer feels like effort or work, but literally becomes a labor of love that feels more like a gift, a joyful opportunity for which we feel grateful and blessed'.
4 Habits of Lasting Couples
One thing that lasting couples do is care for each other's feelings by doing the emotional work that the relationship requires. Emotional work is something that we rarely hear about but psychologists study this topic as a factor in relationship happiness.
Researchers in the Journal of Family Issues say of emotional work that 'Family members do work to meet people's emotional needs, improve their well-being, and maintain harmony. When emotional work is shared equally, both men and women have access to emotional resources in the family. However, like housework and childcare, the distribution of emotional work is gendered'. Women are the one who typically take on the emotional work in a relationship.
The researchers show how important the emotional work is to healthy relationships;
partners with a gender imbalance with emotional work tended to see an erosion of the marriage, which 'posed to a health risk to women and helped explain gender differences in psychological distress'.
For a lasting relationship, men need to learn to identify emotional cues from their female partner and help to release feelings of anger/sadness/fear. When male partners are able to support their companions emotionally, they have the skills needed for a lasting relationship.
In a lasting relationship, couples demonstrate their love by doing things every day to support each other. Although a loving, committed couple can make a relationship look easy, it actually takes a little bit of work.
Linda and Charlie Bloom, authors of Secrets of Great Marriages, write about lasting couples that over time ''the experience of nurturing the relationship no longer feels like effort or work, but literally becomes a labor of love that feels more like a gift, a joyful opportunity for which we feel grateful and blessed'.
4 Habits of Lasting Couples
One thing that lasting couples do is care for each other's feelings by doing the emotional work that the relationship requires. Emotional work is something that we rarely hear about but psychologists study this topic as a factor in relationship happiness.
Researchers in the Journal of Family Issues say of emotional work that 'Family members do work to meet people's emotional needs, improve their well-being, and maintain harmony. When emotional work is shared equally, both men and women have access to emotional resources in the family. However, like housework and childcare, the distribution of emotional work is gendered'. Women are the one who typically take on the emotional work in a relationship.
The researchers show how important the emotional work is to healthy relationships;
partners with a gender imbalance with emotional work tended to see an erosion of the marriage, which 'posed to a health risk to women and helped explain gender differences in psychological distress'.
For a lasting relationship, men need to learn to identify emotional cues from their female partner and help to release feelings of anger/sadness/fear. When male partners are able to support their companions emotionally, they have the skills needed for a lasting relationship.
- WORKING ON SOLVING PROBLEMS: Every day couples face challenges just to get coordinated and get out the door for work, and they haven't even discussed what they are having for dinner. Beyond that, larger problems come up with regard to finances, health, family planning, social commitments, etc. Couples who have a lasting relationship are looking to the future together. They usually share a common goal, for example retiring early or paying off the house so that they have money to travel. A shared goal is a common problem that each partner is working on solving.
- COMMUNICATE OPENLY: Of course you talk to your partner, but when you are in a lasting relationship you seek to understand your other half rather than just talking to them. You express your viewpoint and ask your partner to contribute their opinion as well. Communication is a gift that you can five your partner in the form of excellent listening skills. Misunderstandings can be a source of tension and anger in a relationship. Prevent problems by being fully present when your partner is speaking. Eliminate distractions, make eye contact and do not wait to speak. Ask questions about what your partner said and restate their words so they know that you truly understand them. The importance of excellent communication cannot be overstated for lasting couples. Open communication is also the basis of trust. Lasting couples do not hide things from their partner.
- CREATE A SHARED SPECIAL MOMENT: Successful business leaders know that reviewing the workday to find the lessons learned is an excellent practice to follow. In a strong relationship with your romantic partner, you should also look back to see how your day went as a couple.Was there a learning experience that you can apply right now? Did your partner smile or laugh with you today? Are you free of worries or is there something you need to get off your chest? What one thing would make your day together even better? Creating one special moment each day with your love is not difficult. All it takes is knowing your partner well and finding the right moment to connect with them deeply. Think right now of one thing that your partner likes that you can give them. For example, you might share a private joke while watching your favorite movie. The special moment could be when you sense your partner's tension and give them a back-rub. Maybe your special moment is a cuddle in bed together. These small, but significantly intimate moments are what make a lasting couple blissfully connected.
- REAFFIRM THEIR COMMITMENT: This may sound corny, but really, each day that you choose to stay with your partner, you are making a conscious commitment to them. Let's face it, you do have free will and you could choose to find another partner. The fact that you don't do that is a very important decision that you have barely even been aware of making. The author knows a man who each day says to his wife, 'Thank you for allowing me to continue to stay with you'. Bring your awareness to the reasons for your decision to stay with your partner. Think about the importance of your relationship and how you have managed to be a lasting couple, no matter how long you have lasted so far.
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FlowerGirl : )
FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )
Stay true to yourself
Don't worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you fee. If people
want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as bad person, absolutely
nothing you do will stop them. Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the
more reason you give them to knock you down if they are committed to misunderstanding you.
Keep your head up high an be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and
keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because
you can't change people's views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from
within you, not from anyone else.
Love
FlowerGirl : )
Don't worry about what people think of you or about the way they try to make you fee. If people
want to see you as a good person, they will. If they want to see you as bad person, absolutely
nothing you do will stop them. Ironically, the more you try to show them your good intentions, the
more reason you give them to knock you down if they are committed to misunderstanding you.
Keep your head up high an be confident in what you do. Be confident in your intentions and
keep your eyes ahead instead of wasting your time on those who want to drag you back. Because
you can't change people's views, you have to believe that true change for yourself comes from
within you, not from anyone else.
Love
FlowerGirl : )
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