Good evening, beautiful people....
I was sitting at a cafe-bar one night, talking with my friends, enjoying my cocktail until a sentence I've read on the wall disturbed me: ''People love to forget'' and ever since its contradictory meaning was stacked in my head. Yes, we human beings tend to forget easily. We forget all the goodness that people have done for us and we recall all the bad things that happened to us.
The above theory though does not apply for all but for most people. People tend to forget all those who loved us, all those who helped us in our bad times and all of those who stood up for and next to us. Maybe because we want to believe that they were obliged to, or perhaps people from their nature are winning and ingratitude human beings or just maybe we take people for granted.
Our parents, our teachers, and later on our colleagues, our friends, people with whom we shared feelings and our bed, are being recalled in our head as a bad memory relating to a bad experience that we lived. Because we human beings tend to forget the good side of something we lived but we never forget the bad feelings that were caused by people. Thus we find it hard to forget them and as a result we lack from our inner peace.
It is indeed very difficult to train yourself to see the good in people and accepting their inner bad side. Yes, some people will hurt us, will abandon us, and will betray us even though before that they were an important part in our life. And they will do it as well because they are just human beings full of mistakes and suffering.
It is our choice whether we will move on without them or if we should give them a second chance. But we should never leveled our relationship with people that we loved. In order to love them in first place there had to be something, right?And if we loved them for the wrong reasons, then is our problem and only.
Saying the word ''I appreciate'' whatever my parents, friends, my partner have done for me is not enough. You should not only say it but you should also show your appreciation for all those things they gave you or continue to do it through actions. The way you are behaving towards them, how much you let them in your life, whatever you are doing for them. Every action of goodness and love to that person is only a proof that you have never forgeot the good times, all the support and help he/she offered you.
In some the bad wins, by doing bad things to others. They loose the good-bad balance which is inside them and at the end they loose themselves as well. They are all the time angry, sad and full of jealousy and hatred feelings to others and they want to hurt people so as they will feel better with themselves, even for a little bit. They are those who forgot or did not appreciate the good that people offered to them and those that did not forgave those who hurt them. They are prone to misery, complaints, winning, and do not have the strength to love themselves and the goodness when finally it comes on their path.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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