Relationships : )

                                                    When love is true...


A good relationship
is when two people
accept each other's
past, support each
other's present, and
love each other
enough to encourage
each other's future.
So don't rush love.
Find a partner who
encourages you to
grow, who won't cling
to you, who will let
you go out into the
world and trust that
you will come back.
This is what true love
is all about.











Love


FlowerGirl  : )

FlowerGirls' Thoughts :)

                               Are you good at love or at being love............


Some people are good at being in love.
Some people are good at love. Two very
different things, I think. Being in love is the
romantic part -  sex all the time, midday naps
in the sheets, the jokes, the laughs, the fun,
long conversations with no pauses,
overwhelming, separation anxiety.. Just the
best sides of both people, you know? But love
begins when the excitement of being in  love
starts to fade; the stress of life sets in, the
butterflies disappear, the sex not so often, the
tears, the sadness, the arguments, the
cattiness; the worst parts of both people. But
if you still want that person by your side
through all of those things... that's when  you
know - that's when you know you're good at
love.





Love


FlowerGirl : )

About Life : )

                                          The pain of saying goodbye...


It's really painful to say
goodbye to someone that
you don't want to let go of,
but it's even more painful
to hold on to them if they
never wanted to stay in the
first place. If someone
doesn't show you the same
love that you show them,
and acts as if you are
unimportant most of the
time, this may be a big clue
as to the fact that you don't
need them in  your life
either. The only people you
truly need in your life are
those who respect you and
want you to be in theirs.












Love



FlowerGirl : )

About Relationships : )

                                                       Love is a whole life...


Love isn't an act,
it's a whole life. It's staying
with her now because she
needs you; it's knowing you
and she will still care about
each other when sex and
daydreams, fights and
futures - when all that's on
the shelf and done with.
Love - why, I''ll tell you
what love is: it's you at
seventy-one, each of you
listening for the other's
step in the next room, each
afraid that a sudden silence,
a sudden cry, could mean a
lifetime's talk is over.







Love


FlowerGirl  :)

OOTD : )

                                                       Sunday

                                                      Fun Day

Adidas burgundy tracking pants

Adidas sneakers by Stan Smith

Adidas Tee by Rita Ora

Ray Ban sunnies

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                            Friday vibes

Rolling Stones by Pull n Bear

Jeans by Topshop

Adidas Superstar vintage 80's sneakers

Ray Ban sunnies

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                          Sunday vibes

Kimono by Angel Xelena Creations

Adidas tee

Mom's jeans by Topshop

Adidas superstar vintage 80's sneakers

Dior sunnies

Love

FlowerGirl  :)

FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )

                                            You are not being paranoid....









Love


FlowerGirl ; )

FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )

                                                 5 Thoughts of wisdom

1. If you are right, then there is no need to get angry. And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
2. Patience with family is love. Patience with others is respect. Patience with self is confidence.
3. Never think hard about the past, It bring tears. Don't think more about future, It brings fears. Live this moment with a smile, It brings cheers..
4. Every test in our life makes us bitter or better. Every problem comes to make us or break us. Choice is ours, whether we become a victim or be victorious.
5. Search a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face. Beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.

Love

FlowerGirl : )

Inspiration :)

                                                      12 Things to Remember

1. The past cannot be changed.
2. Opinions don't define your reality.
3. Everyone's journey is different.
4. Things always get better with time.
5. Judgments are a confession of character.
6. Overthinking will lead to sadness.
7. Happiness is found withing.
8. Positive thoughts create positive things.
9. Smiles are contagious.
10. Kindness is free.
11. You only fail if you quit.
12. What goes around comes around.

Love

FlowerGirl  :)

About life : )

                                  These moments will change you...





  





There's going to be very painful moments in your life that will change your entire world in a matter of minutes. These moments will change YOU. Let them make you stronger, smarter, and kinder. But don't you go and become someone that you're not. Cry. Scream if you have to. Then you straighten out that crown and keep it moving.







Love



FlowerGirl : )

FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )

                       Okay I know that there are terrible terrible people out there but listen...



Okay I know that there are terrible terrible people out there but listen;


I also know that there are people who stop and smile at tiny plants growing out of sidewalk cracks, people who laugh so loud they snort, people who compliment others randomly, people who take pictures of their friends because they love seeing their friends happy, people who ramble about things that they're passionate about, people who blush and stutter, people who are kind, people who are warm, people who love and love and love and love.







Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                           Friday vibes
                                                 Have a great weekend you guys !!

Leather leggings by Calzedonia

Red blouse by North-land

Leather bag by Lanidor

Velcro sneakers

Dior sunnies

Love

FlowerGirl : )

About Life : )

                                                You have to move on...


Moving on and getting over someone is one of the hardest things you have to do in life. Especially if it's with someone you saw your future with. So you have to move on the right way. Get your closure from them and tell them everything you ever wanted to tell them, how much you love them, how much you hate them, etc. So you will have no regrets or what ifs.
Then tell them goodbye forever. If they let you leave without a fight for you, then they're not worth it anyways. It's going to hurt like hell. Allow yourself to be sad. To be angry. But you have to wake up every day and continue your life without them. It's always easier said than done. So just let time heal your wounds. This is a time for you to heal. To take care of your heart. One day you will wake up and you won't miss them anymore.













Love


FlowerGirl : )

Inspiration : )

                                                You deserve to be really happy...



You deserve someone who loves you with every single beat of his heart. Someone who can help you reach your dreams and who can protect you from your fears. You need someone who will treat you with respect, love every part of you, especially your flaws. You should be with someone who can make you happy, really happy, dancing-on-air-happy. Someone who should have taken the chance to be with you years ago instead of becoming scared and being too afraid to try.











Love



FlowerGirl : )

FlowerGirls' Thoughts : )

                                                           It makes you a human...


You don't have to be positive all the time.
It's perfectly okay to feel sad, angry, annoyed, frustrated, scared, or anxious.
Having feelings doesn't make you a ''negative person''.
It makes you human.















Love


FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                      Velvet Love

Velvet dress by MindYourStyle

T-Shirt by Sud Express

Nude heels by Zara

Velvet choker by Asos

Love

FlowerGirl : )

Inspiration :)

                                          

                                                                        Love

                                                                   FlowerGirl  :)

Relationships : )

                             Don't put your happiness on hold for someone..






Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn't meant to work. You can't force someone to care about you. You can't force someone to be loyal. You can't force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you 're the best without. You got understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don't lose yourself by trying to fix what's meant to stay broken. You can't get the relationship you need from someone who's not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn't work out. TRUST ME. Don't put your happiness on hold for someone who isn't holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure.
Straight up.















Love


FlowerGirl  :)

OOTD : )

                                                      Wednesdaze

Bohemian dress by Lanidor

Shoes by TT Bagatt

Belt by BSB

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                            Old School Style

Dress by Zara

Leather bag by Lanidor

Nude heels by Flashback

Sunnies by Christopher

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD :)

                                                       Monday vibes


                                                        Spring mode

                                                Leather midi dress by Bojo Boutique

                                                          Yves Saint Laurent Tee
                                                         
                                                            Shoes by Sante Shoes

                                                           Leather bag by Lanidor
                                                               
                                                                 Dior sunnies





                                                                Love

                                                           FlowerGirl : )

                                   

OOTD : )

                                                            Sunday vibes

Adidas Superstar vintage 80's sneakers

Adidas dress

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                          Friday Vibes

Culottes jeans by Pull & Bear

Belt by Asos

Adidas Tee

Velvet heels by Sante Shoes

Leather bag by Lanidor

Love

FlowerGirl : )

FlowerGirl's Thoughts : )

                        5 Things To Give Up Right Now (Even If You Don't Want To)







''Nothing is more intolerable than to have to admit to yourself your own errors'' . Ludwig van Beethoven

Giving up anything we've come to embrace (consciously or not) as part of ourselves is often a tough endeavor. Compiling a list of things that each one of us ''shouldn't do'' is hard too, by the way. But we digress.

It is our sincere belief that giving up the 5 things on this list will lead to a happier, healthier, and more fulfilling life. Each item has the potential to eliminate a ton of stress and possible heartache while maybe even providing a renewed sense of freedom.

HERE ARE 5 THINGS WE SHOULD ALL AIM TO GIVE UP:

1. The Need For Control: Aside from positive self-control, we should each minimize the need to feel in control of things around you. People tagged with the ''control freak'' label always need to feel in control of events, situations, and especially people; this last one strips the right of each individual to simply by themselves. Controlling others is a form of abuse; something nobody should have to experience. Letting go of this need for control, no matter how hard at first, will feel like a tremendous weight has been lifted. It's quite likely that your relationships will improve as well.
2. The Need To Be Right: For some of us, the idea of admitting a mistake - or conceding that someone else is right - produces a sense of dread. In this regard, we share the same sentiment as the great Bruce Lee, who once said: ''Mistakes are always forgivable, if ones has the courage to admiti them''. Countless relationships and friendships have ended because one (or both) person ALWAYS had to be right; no matter any facts or evidence to the contrary. Not only is this erroneous stubbornness a relationship-breaker; it's a very unhealthy behavior - not just for the individual, but to those unfortunate enough to be exposed to it. Ever had a boss with an insatiable need to be right? How terrible was it to work under the microscope of a borderline tyrant? These same feelings surface in others when we insist on being right.
3. The Need To Complain: Totally giving up the act of complaining is similar to giving up the need to breathe. Inwardly or outwardly, we will all engage in a grubling episode from time to time. We all possess enough self-awareness to admit and whether or not we're constant complainers - and whether or not a change in outlook is in order.The uncomfortable (but freeing) reality is that external stressors are a matter of internal perception. Sir Charles Lyell, in 1863, wrote: ''It may be said that, so far from having a materialistic tendency, the supposed introduction into the earth at successive instinct, the intelligence of the higher mammalia bordering on reason, and lastly, the improvable reason of Man himself - presents us with a picture of the ever-increasing dominion of mind over matter''. In short, our improbable existence, and the indisputable superiority of our species' innate intellect to adapt in spite of seemingly insurmountable challenges throughout the ages proves the natural power of man. Complaining is a pointless act. Instead, use your mind and overcome the matter.
4. The Need To Make Excuses: Excuse making is an act of self-limitation - behavior that can stunt individual progress. Instead of putting forth the necessary effort to achieve our goals, finish a task, or follow through on a commitment, many of us will instead take the easy way out. Allowing some baseless excuse to spew from our lips is the easiest way out possible. Attribute constant excuse-making to ignorance, immaturity, or laziness; the effects are disruptive, even disastrous. But this can all change if we're able to admit this shortcoming and drive forward. George Washington Carver, and African-American born into slavery, received nationwide recognition (including in Time Magazine) for his breakthroughs in the areas of botany and biology throughout his lifetime.Despite living a time of extreme racism, Mr Carver once proclaimed ''Ninety-nine percent of the failures come from people who have the habit of making excuses''.  That's an eye opener, indeed. Well put, Mr Carver.
5. The Need To Limit Yourself: As intelligent human beings, we are aware when something we're doing is holding us back. We couldn't possibly list every single thing that is counterproductive to health, growth, and happiness. We're all different, which only makes such any attempt to compartmentalize limiting behavior all the more impossible. Are you a chronic procrastinator? Slowly work on disciplining yourself to get things done on time. Are you engaging in habits you know to be harmful? Maybe you drink a bit too much, watch too much television, spend too much money, hang out with the wrong crowd, (fill in the behavior here)...it't never too late to commit to change.

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

FriYay

Concept: Casual work outfit 

Friday vibes

Chanel tee

Black mom's jeans by Topshop

Khaki shirt by Stradivarius

Espadrilles by Stradivarius

Sunnies by Bojo Boutique

Leather bag by Lanidor

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

Concept: Black n white

Calvin Klein tee

Leather culottes by Intimissimi

Pointed heels by Zara

Love

FlowerGirl :  )

Fitness : )

                                                  Thursday Motivation


                                      Never stop moving#work hard#train harder


                                                 Cardio full body burn workout

Leggings by MindYourStyle

Sports bra by Body action 

Adidas trainers

Love

FlowerGirl : )

OOTD : )

                                                     

Concept: Exploring this ancient deserted hotel

Adventurous mode 

Legging by H & M

Adidas tee

Adidas trainers

Backpack by Accessorize

Gianfranco Ferre sunnies

Love

FlowerGirl : )

Inspiration :)

                                                       Stay strong

Love

FlowerGirl : )