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                                                           Sunday 30/10/2016


Lovely evening with friends; there is nothing than a nice cocktail can't fix, right?! And what a background; Christmas is at the corner, mates.... They started already decorating people their shops with Chrismassy goodies.... Shall we get to the spirit as well or not? Too early for me but not maybe for you..

Vintage green shirt by Brigitte Boutique

Mom's ripped jeans by Topshop

Vintage belt by Asos

Ankle booties by Stradivarius

Messy hairstyle 

Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                       Sunday 23/10/2016



Greetings from ma house! Lovely afternoon, relaxing on my porch. After strolling in da city there is nothing better going home and chilling' before realizing that is Sunday and another week is beginning.

Hang in there, you guys... October is almost over .... Two months left before Christmas................
Another year is nearly coming to its end :0 :0 :0 :0 :0

Pink/fuchsia maxi dress by Joint clothes

Velvet choker by Asos

Sneakers by Aldo

Half up half down messy on the front hairstyle

Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                                Monday 24/10/2016


Business#look#back#to#work#again#Mondays#realising#it's a new week#all over again#same#routine#last week#of#October..................

Green shirt/blouse by Zara

Beige A-line bottoms by Castro Concept

Natural make up 

Loose hairstyle

White leather bag by Lanidor

Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                         Tuesday 25/10/2016

Street style#Duty#style#outfit#business look#Tuesdays be like...

Stripped bottoms by Stradivarius

Tee by Ladida

White knit by Intimissimi

White pointed heels with silver detail by Lu

White leather bag by Lanidor

Half knot up hairstyle

Velvet choker by Asos

Love. Flower Girl. x

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             With some sharing your bed may be boring but with some in only takes a look and a kiss






Good morning beautiful people!



Have you ever thought how different a situation might be if you saw things on a different ankle? Have you ever sat down and think how you treat differently people and current situations based on your emotions? Whether you are interested on or not, if you care about them or not, if you desire them too much or not at all?

I am sure if you think about it thoroughly you will remember that many times you thought ''I wish I had the chance to live with this person'', or ''How would I feel if I had gone that trip with that person?''. There are moments that you wanted inmost to spend them with that particular person or at least make yourself to think how may that have been.

There are people in each person's life that their mark sometimes never faints. There are also people that come in our life and easily leave, like they have never came; they did not manage to touch our soul. They just have fulfill desires of a minute, a moment, and they last the minimum a night. Until the sun sunrises.

There are people that make us have unusual feelings, unprecedented. They make our heart flickering, just with one look and one smile. Our legs nub and we forget the Alphabet. Little things on them that we get obsessed by and can't get them out of our head. And all these before making them ours.

Of course all the above is because of our feelings. Nothing is made by made or on purpose. For example, when we meet a person, who does not make us to have that ''click'', does not excite us, does not make us to discover his inner world, but only creates us those feelings just to satisfy our instincts and cravings, then the most probably is that we will end up in bed with this person and never see him again.

And this is not necessarily negative. All human beings, we have lived and done it (and you that are claiming that you did not do it, you have 100% thought about it). It is not a bad thing, it's just the way we are feeling that precise moment. Indifferent and unconscious we want to reach the absolute peak with selfish and arrogant rhythms.

But when the time comes and we are finally in thunderous love, and everything and everyone reminds us of that person who fills and completes us, then the most simple things throws us. Two looks, three kisses on the cheek or on mouth are enough to make us loose our senses, disruptive us and not to know in general where we stand on.

When we are in love, or in simple words in the best phase of our life that we want to fall in love and we have found our ''guy'' to sneak deep in our heart and mind, then we do not need much. Just this person to remind us daily that this what we are living is reality. A touch, a hug, a smile are more than enough for us to be able to deal with every problem that might come along.

 Weird, right? How can there be such a great distance of emotions! Then that somewhere, once, with somebody did not interest us, and now with this particular person, we do care about everything. From the smallest to the biggest detail.

It has to do what we want from life and this we only know this. What we may face is pretty normal and comes from the stages that each one of us goes through. These little stages which are called experiences. Sometimes smaller sometimes bigger. Sometimes more significant sometimes less significant. So, from the moment that your instincts know what they want, is it worth resisting them?




Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                             If there is true love it will be shown in the end






The end. Seven letters are enough to seal big or small stories, expectations and wishes. And the show of the end begins, only this time we are not actors, we don't have roles to play, we do not wear any masks. Now that we have been totally stripped from our dreams, illusions and granted beliefs, our real self will be revealed because what ever we had to win we have already lost it.

The end. We have loved and been loved. Did we love? Have we been loved? Time to report. The person that has loved will suffer the most. Because the one that has loved, still loves. Love does not come to an end, no matter how many ''over'' you say to it, no matter how many ''over'' will love say as well. In simple words, the one has loved is under self-denial and selfishness in enduring war.

''I have to let my person go'' he thinks and tights his teeth, so as to avoid saying ''I love you'' to come in between of the other person's choice. ''I wish what is best for him/her'' he/she will whisper, even if he/she is sad that she did not manage to be the best for him. He/she will respect, he/she will care, he/she will protect, as he/she always has. He/she will cry, he/she will scream, he/she will hit with force the wall, he/she will hide his face in his/her palms desperate, angry, disappointed, he/she will defend himself behind of few words, missed calls, pretending that he does not care, but he/she won't attack. The one that loves does not hurt.

The end. Did we not love? Haven't we been loved? The one that has not loved will now be indulged in the game of guilt, remorse and will dig the other's wounds, so as to make him/her weak, and maybe to cut his/her wings to fly and escape. Because the one that did not love, has won. He/she did not give him/herself, only has taken. And now he/she will do anything so as not to loose his/her award. Even if she/he knows that he /she will loose it, will pressure it, will hurt it, will break it so as he/she will never be the same the person he/she used to be, so nobody else will enjoy him/her like he/she did.

He/she will go low. Will beg, but soon enough begging will become insulting. He/she will cry but soon enough crying will end up in anger. He/she will try to find comfort in other arms, ''hugs'' just in case those will appreciate him/her. But what appreciation worth's to that person who you were used to be an irreplaceable prize? What appreciation worth's tho that person that can bare the vision of you suffering? The person that loves does not kill.

The end. The one has not loved, in reality helps the one that has loved to leave. Because it debunks everything he/she thought he found on him/her was ideal. He/she will see hater behind the supposed ''rare'' love. He/she will see insult behind the supposed admiration. He/she will see a beast behind his/her ''angel''. And he/she will leave. He/she will leave, because he/she deserves it. He/she will leave, because he/she is choking. He/she will leave, because she/he should have gone long time ago. But he/she always stopped at some last guilty doubts and some half dead hopes.

He/she stopped because she/he loved him/her. And he/she will always love her/him. He/she will love whatever made him/her special in to her/him eyes, on their very first chatting, meetings, flirting. He/she will love the times that she gave her body and soul to him. She will love the dreams that she made with him as a starring actor. She will love their memories. She will love the good things, but she will leave because of the bad ones.

Love won't be save from the final judgement. No one can'be saved from other and no one can be saved from himself. Are you the one who did not love? Then yes, you will peel off easily, the moment you find the strength to rise up again your affected ego. You will leave the minute you find a new person to conquer.

Are you perhaps the person that did love? The yes, you will suffer. Yes, it will take time to get use to the idea your love was not responded. You will insult yourself and regret your own mistakes. You loved and you did not hurt anyone, but yes you got hurt. You loved but you did not kill, but yes you were killed. But for the love that you have died though you will be reborn. You will be reborn to love and be loved all over again, from the beginning.  This is what you deserve. The end.





Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                         30's are the new 20's





Good Morning beautiful people!

You should remember as well, or at least have felt the same around the age of 12 that high school kids were for us adults in our eyes and at the early stages of our adulteress the first 10 years let's say the people who were 30 years old were for us experienced, mature, grown ups in our eyes. You would say 30 at the age of 20 thinking that will take years to come and you were planning what your life would be at your 30's.

Work career success, travelling around the world, having 2-3 children; whatever had anyone most desired had a deadline at the age of 30 to fulfill his/her wishes and of course becoming conscious, emotionally clarified, for sure independent, living in a nice at least 70 square cm apartment with luxurious furniture, sport's car, a nice apartment or house in the country and sea side of course, 2-3 steaming lovers in the past until you found your one true love and staying far enough from your parents and visiting them every Sunday for lunch proud of their 30 years' old children achievements.

And then the crisis had hit and your ''alibi'' has become a nice memory. And crisis, as every political, social, financial crisis, did not only affected the salaries and our everyday life, but has also affected relationships since all these are closely intertwined.

Twenty five, twenty six, twenty nine and you are watching all the goals that you set until your 30's taking an extension which lasts at least a decade.

Career comes later a day, 1002 trips became 2. You can go Berlin and London, this is the most far you can go; at least you can see countries others than your birth country. You only see children playing on the park across your student's apartment or from your bedroom still living in your parent's house.

Emotionally you are going through a limbo phase, trapped in almost relationships, one night stands, months will go by without having clear goals or destinations, but luckily for you, your friends are less or more in the same faith as yours and for you is comfort; you won't be treated as a looser like 10 years ago would say.

Although your appetite for partying till morning has been reduced when you decide to throw a party your list is full of people around 20 something. Flirting check, since you have spent your years on failing dating, and sexually you are in a gold ''era''. You find yourself interested among attractive one, a trophie  for each person that will manage to touch you. The fact that in the future you may screw things up again, does not invalid the fact that you have managed to mind fuck perfectly in compare to others that they believe they are good at it.

You skip Sunday's lunches over your parent's house, while the rest they are having dessert you are sitting at a cafe having your ''Frappe'' (Greek iced coffee). Your parents are angry of course because other people at your age are married with 2-3 kids, and do not forget their parents every 3 Sundays at least to visit them, they weren't spending their day over a computer's screen, were doing 3 jobs to manage to save some money and what on earth kind of job is this that you shouldn't get up early to go at work without a briefcase?

And you, chilling on the couch, staring the ceiling and texting your buddies to come over and chill with you. 30 years old buddies but in their mind and heart are still 20. Same energy, same uncertainty, same freshness and same insecurity. 30 year old people that like to expand themselves creatively, that still dreaming to change the world, and they keep wondering if they are romantic, or naive and ensconced.

30 year old people that 40's are approaching and they still believe that they have years and years to become 40, since for them their 20th birthday was yesterday. Goals are overextended; from one hand they don't feel guilty and from the other hand they fell stressed: facts are facts and are beyond optimistic: when 40's come, whether trips are 1002, whether you have been established professionally, or you have 2 children running around you or not, you will be 32 years old. And this is more than enough.






Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                         People tend to forget all the things that you have done for them






Good evening, beautiful people....

I was sitting at a cafe-bar one night, talking with my friends, enjoying my cocktail until a sentence I've read on the wall disturbed me: ''People love to forget'' and ever since its contradictory meaning was stacked in my head. Yes, we human beings tend to forget easily. We forget all the goodness that people have done for us and we recall all the bad things that happened to us.

The above theory though does not apply for all but for most people. People tend to forget all those who loved us, all those who helped us in our bad times and all of those who stood up for and next to us. Maybe because we want to believe that they were obliged to, or perhaps people from their nature are winning and ingratitude human beings or just maybe we take people for granted.

Our parents, our teachers, and later on our colleagues, our friends, people with whom we shared feelings and our bed, are being recalled in our head as a bad memory relating to a bad experience that we lived. Because we human beings tend to forget the good side of something we lived but we never forget the bad feelings that were caused by people. Thus we find it hard to forget them and as a result we lack from our inner peace.

It is indeed very difficult to train yourself to see the good in people and accepting their inner bad side. Yes, some people will hurt us, will abandon us, and will betray us even though before that they were an important part in our life. And they will do it as well because they are just human beings full of mistakes and suffering.

It is our choice whether we will move on without them or if we should give them a second chance. But we should never leveled our relationship with people that we loved. In order to love them in first place there had to be something, right?And if we loved them for the wrong reasons, then is our problem and only.

Saying the word ''I appreciate'' whatever my parents, friends, my partner have done for me is not enough. You should not only say it but you should also show your appreciation for all those things they gave you or continue to do it through actions. The way you are behaving towards them, how much you let them in your life, whatever you are doing for them. Every action of goodness and love to that person is only a proof that you have never forgeot the good times, all the support and help he/she offered you.

In some the bad wins, by doing bad things to others. They loose the good-bad balance which is inside them and at the end they loose themselves as well. They are all the time angry, sad and full of jealousy and hatred feelings to others and they want to hurt people so as they will feel better with themselves, even for a little bit. They are those who forgot or did not appreciate the good that people offered to them and those that did not forgave those who hurt them. They are prone to misery, complaints, winning, and do not have the strength to love themselves and the goodness when finally it comes on their path.





Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                         Insensitive people are more sensitive after all



There are people who are indifferent, cynically and have thick skin after their own decision of course. There are others who tried to pretend and imitate the first's behavior and they got used to it at some point as a result to become like the in the end. People like to gossip and spread rumors such as ''the party animal'', ''the asshole'', ''the Ms. I know everything'' and as a result they built an image of the other person based on lies, gossip and first impressions. People are stigmatized, rightly or wrongly, sometimes they don't even have to chance to examine the truth. Sometimes the voices of others become as well their own voice in their head and they end up doubting about themselves.

Although people reprove the fact that their hobby is mass acceptance, you have been as well served with others. You were in a hurry over a silly sentence or a disappointing behavior to make assumptions.In every company, in every party there is a court. Little human beings! And how easily you forget our own weaknesses every time we are talking about other's.

Each time an ''insensitive'' person comes out from our mouth, the more sensitive we become, our prestige goes up; we feel like we have sat on our throne tonight again. And even this instantly lovely feeling is so addictive which binds us more and more with this bad habit. Next time that you will judge any sort of behavior you should observe yourself rushing to conclusions to condemn it with few evidence.

A friend of mine used to say that in this world we are living are people with sensitivity, sweet and kind. And while my friend was full of trust and magnanimity I was seeing who has an easy faith; ''We are all scumbags''  I was repeating him. I did not completely change my mind, but I try to remind myself that we all started from somewhere, we all had a different path and through it we have evolved ourselves until today, where our paths came across.

No one has been born insensitive, no one enjoys the judgmental looks of others, no one prefers to be detest over beloved, if he/she had the chance to choose, to reveal sides of him/herself before taking place the ''judgmental'' rain.


Growing up I 've learned to trust more the ''scumbags'' rather than the ''good guys''. The misunderstood, the strict and the light-lipped types. Those who don't flatter others easily, those who don't give easily nor themselves. The pretentious' word counts more, an indifferent person will be doubled excited, and their love usually is solid. I was inspired mostly by those unsaid words, the story behind the images, the well hidden woods. There is always something underneath, there is no way not to be.

We live in a digital world where everyone is fighting to show our humanitarian opinions and an in real world where the competition makes us suspicious and introvert, is is very hard to see the good and we end up being reserved, isolated and alone.

One night stand relationship, one week friendship, meaningless full of crap words. People meet other people, get to know each other, are being appreciated until the ''insensitivity'' drops the bomb over dinner. We have became so sensitive, that we can't stand the insensitivity of others, makes to have a stomachache, and leave.

The ''insensitive'' who is left behind or leaves first, is hurt and resents as well. He is in a difficult place as well, unfriendly I should say, has no shoulder to cry on, no one wants to take care of him since he does not need it.

It is much more easier to be the victim of the situation, that's why most people prefer to take that place. The ''insensitive'' person will suffer silent and keep trying to do what he knows best in a world where sensitivity is being concerned to be a weakness; He will survive with a company or alone.








Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                        When you find your ''guy'' you will instantly feel it





Some say when you find your ''guy'' the signs will be obvious. And no, you don't feel butterflies nor burl in your stomach, or your knees shaking like a child does, as they may say. In the contrary you are surrounded by a felling of integration and peacefulness without a trace of shame, awkwardness and palpitation.

Many people have refused the idea of a ''soulmate'' and believed that nothing of such thing exists. And others have lived their whole life with people who don't consider that is their ''guy'' and having family as well. But how can we name a person that is our ''person'' and how can we be sure that this person was made for us?

It is simple; Because you will recognize your ''guy'' from miles away without even approaching you. He is that kinda of person that your bond is strong and when you are together you two become ''one''; invisible, almighty, and unbeatable which is almost impossible to break.

He is not that kind of person that makes your knees shaking nor to have butterflies in your stomach, but the opposite: he gives you a heavenly calmness that comforts you mentally and completely.

He is the one who though his humbleness and simplicity has manage to get rid of the ''supernumerary'' who tried to take his place. The place, the ''throne'' that you kept empty so as the ''right'' person would come and and be able to claim it.

He is the one, that while you are sleeping together your breaths find their way to synchronize with each other, who will always make sure that your body is covered with sheets on. He is the one that will teach you to make a sentence without ''but'' and perhaps each word coming from him is accompanied by an action confirming his own words.

He is the one who despite acknowledging your terrible ego, will make a step behind and will call you again because he can't bare the thought, the idea of you two will go to bed angry.

He is the one who believes that time is a luxury nowadays and he is not willing to throw his relationship in to the bin over a stupid fight and because of the fact that you may be selfish this will last a whole week.

He is the one who is majestic, the severity and honesty dominant, but when he is in a room with you will be transformed in a minute to an innocent sweet child waiting from you to show him how much you love him.

He is the kind of person that your problem will be his as well and automatically he divide your stress in two. He will be upset and bitter  twice the size on every failure and unhappiness of yours.

He will you be your voice every time you are in difficulty to speak and the one that will give you strength to go on. Respect according to him is something holly and he wants people around him to to respect him as well.

He is the person who is less possessive,  makes you his ''person'' but gives you freedom at the same time so as you will be always turning back to him. He is the person who is selective and discerning, who chose you from his ''garden'' to irrigate you daily with beautiful moments and actions that cultivated your mind and soothe your soul.

He is the one that you can't find the correct not even the most beautiful words to characterize him. He is the one that you want to reveal that he is your ''person'' and you consider him necessary in your life. You want to open yourself to him and spend hours and hours explaining how he brought peace in your soul.


Did you even tell him or not yet? Tell him NOW. And while he will be listening, he will smile and won't interrupt you to answer your questions for all those feelings he caused you.

He will only laugh with sweetness, hold you in his arms, give you a big hug and kiss you. And trust me, you won't get prettier answer than this.









Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                           The 30's crisis





Good evening, beautiful people...


The 30's crisis; is it a myth or a reality? Is it the eternal fear that we are almost to a mystery end or to a resurgence of a transient depression to justify all the mistakes that we are about to do?

Of course you will f*** things up and what better excuse than "" I was in a weird situation,dude and did not know what I was doing'' . Powered by a sweet sin with the perfect excuse. Satisfactory.

How ironic though; Because all of sudden you are 30 years old and all those beautiful moments and things that you have lived are magically gone and replaced by the question: '' What have I done in my life? Nothing from what I have done is enough!'' And you basically breathe; To taste a warm plate of guilt, thinking about others that did not have the chance to be 30.

And maybe that inner voice of yours is not coming only from you. Perhaps is coming from parents who tell you in a sweet and irritating volume all these things that you haven't done yet. Perhaps is coming from a society that, although you are successfully in professional level will never be enough just because it's rhythm have become extraordinarily fast. All these ''perhaps'' are feeding a power, which feed a bigger weakness: the unsatisfied one.

The unsatisfied is like the autoimmune. Is a part of yourself and it attacks you sneaky in unpredictable moments. Usually it attacks in peaceful or routinely moments, at that moment that you are about to find yourself then boom, comes the unsatisfied to turn everything upside down. Most of the times this has a positive meaning on one hand because it makes you to desire to be a better version of yourself, but on the other hand just because of the fact that is a feeling without of expiration date it can easily lead you to self-destruction.

There cases of course that people are not affected by their age. When you experience life though extreme means - excessive joy and blistering misery - you laugh mockingly with a little meaning such as ''The 30's crisis''. For you, 30 is just a number and nothing more, because life has taught you that the most important thing in life is living the moment, refusing to put  yourself in ''molds'' and allow to your insecurities to destroy your ''castle''.


So much sh** is going on in your head that you have put your unsatisfied in sleep long time ago, or to say it in different words, you have written it somewhere that you did not need ink. Either way  you have seen so much that you will celebrate 30's with joy, because you have managed to keep a part of yourself alive which reality has tried so many times to destroy it.

Perhaps you will stop by a place where people celebrate their 30th birthday in 1002 different ways and you will secretly smile in compare to the way that you are celebrating yours.

You live to make your life better day by day; Not to prove yourself or to others that you have managed to do something at your 30's, according to society. Because is not about being the most beautiful sh** inside a fossa, but to distinguish from it.











Love. Flower Girl. x

Relationships :)

                                                       Your man eventually will hurt you






There are times that you can understand the story of a book by its cover.Wandering in life you will meet budge of different people. But your man is unique; You will recognize him in the minute. You will distinguish him among the crowd. You can feel it! But what is most remarkable of all is that you know in advance that you will live intense moments that equal to intense moments of misery. This is how it goes with these kind of relationships; you feel everything in the maximum!

You will go to him either you are together or not. Whether you have to cross seas or some inches in bed. No matter how many years will go when you speak to him is like there has no one day passed. The same sense, the same unexplained intimacy that you feel next to him which will make you confide him your innermost thoughts.

You will look for him, on bad and good times. Because your man will be there for you and you know it. Otherwise you can not call him ''your man''. You need him and he knows that so he will never say no to you. He might have tortured you! A lot! You might have suffered so much because of him but he has ''rooted'' in you and this won't change. When he asks you for something you will forget everything in a minute.

Nowadays people prefer to expend themselves in everything in general rather than focusing themselves in something unique and specific. Thus your ''man'' will betray you and this is a true fact. He will prefer the comfortable zone instead fighting with you and himself in a daily basis.

Most of the people are like these; selfish and coward. But not when it comes to the quality of life they choose to have but rather in quantity. They seek something different all the time and they don't try to discover the ''different'' only in one person. In reality they are scared that they might be addicted to the presence of one person and only because if someday loosing this person they will know it is over; they will be lost.

So in this way they leave ''open windows'' here and there!A bit here and a bit there! To have alternatives; if they loose a person to have another one for back ups. But deep inside them they know that their man and only will be there for them.

Your man will hurt you at some point because he will take you for granted. He knows that you are his steady point to report. He is not afraid to expose himself, not scared to relieve his worst part of his personality in front of you. And while in his worse version you will be there to listen and support him, without being responsible he will say it's your fault.

Weird, I know; On one hand hurting you and on the other hand blaming you? But at some point he can't stand the fact that you one day might leave him so he will leave first. And your man leaves and love has a bitter sense after..... Your man is a weird creature!





Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                       Outfit Of The Day

FriYAY! Casual day @ work

There's no greater feeling leaving the office on Friday and knowing that you are off for 2 days, right?! Lovely afternoon with friends having fun and chilling @ Starbucks, chatting about various matters.


Have a lovely weekend, people!

Nude/pink body-con by Topshop

Bohemian ethnic bottoms by Zara

White sneakers by Aldo

Oversize white bag by Lanidor

Oversize sunnies by Christopher

Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                         Our  Aura draws us to someone and not the appearance








In your life you will meet different kinds of people, during studies's years, workplace, you hang out with people and thought these people you will meet other people. Friends, lovers. And all these people have one common thing related to you.

They are those people that you chose to get closer with, creating an attraction towards you, that made you somehow wanting to get to know them better and create special bond with them.

Something drawn you to them which you can not determined what was. Is it the energy that was imparted by them, after getting to know that person, the mood which carry and finally the aura which they spread.

Explanation of aura: is the sum of electromagnetic forms that surround the physical body it's considered the hydra of vital power. Most of the people use it to describe in general the positive and negative aura that a person has and thus the impact that has on you; negative or positive feelings. For example if someone is depressed his aura is negative so he/she will have a negative impact causing you to feel most probably the same.

It is something that comes before knowing someone and has more meaning that the second one. What you can understand is that is something not superficial, but is more general when it comes for a person. It's not about the appearance, it's not a specific characteristic, but something in total that draws you.

How many times you have found your self drawn to a person without understanding why but you know that is not the outside appearance? And do not reply by saying no; it is a lie and you know it.

And don't tell me that you did not have an impression or made assumptions for a person from the very first moment that you meet a person! First contact and you already like or dislike someone, without crossing a word with him, without having the chance to learn him/her. And there you have it: that ''something'' that ids happening to you, affecting your judgement.

From all the aspects though the one about love is the most unexpected. You can be magnetized beyond your control and anticipation. You are being attracted by people that you could never imagined you will and especially from people that you can not understand the reason and you find yourself thinking about your choices and trying to understand the explainable.

How can you interpret such things? As if it is impossible? Once you start a conversation you end up without conclusions.

The truth is that in love who ever says that the primary role plays the appearance is mistaken. Besides you don't call love is blind for no reason. And you can confirmed from all these weird couples that you see every day on the road and wondering what did he saw on her or the opposite, and yourself included because it has happened to you as well in the past.

It's ''the aura'', the energy, or ''that something'' as most of people call it, that turns your brain and you fall in love. Yes, the brain. That is the first organ that love awakens and not the heart as many say. If brain does not give the permission nothing goes beyond. The heart just follows and after complements the work by filling it.


And all these, the same things not only in love but in friendship as well, in everyday life and in every contact that will result the most important factor and keep you.


Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                         Wednesday 19/10/2016



Bohemian Style#FlowerGirlStyle#My Style#Authentic#Unique#Fashion#Lover

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Floral bohemian pants by Jola

Green body-con by United Colors of Benetton

Dusty pink knitted cardigan by Topshop

Bohemian necklace by La Lanidor

White oversize bag by La Lanidor

Knot up hairstyle

Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                 No one will hurt you unless you let him do so





Good evening beautiful people!


We have chosen again the wrong person. Same old story, with new people in it. And you torture yourself with thoughts ''What did I do wrong?'' ''When will I get to meet the right person?'' ''Why do I have to suffer again?''; all these questions remained unanswered.

First of all, you are right. It's your fault, is our fault that we have to live the same thing again. He would have done it either way, people do not change all of sudden, and it has nothing to do with you. Most of the times he is waiting the cause, a motive which will give him the chance to hurt you. His cause is not your pain, but just an outcome of his actions. Is not about revenge but rather than chances and insensitivity. But we are responsible for this mistake, because we should have realized it earlier.

The next person in our life should go hell before accepting him. Because of the fact that you are tired with them, you should try to look and find for the right people. I know, it is difficult. But necessary, I will reply to you. I am not referring to the other half and love novels, but to real people and true feelings. Same criteria apply not only for relationships but for friends as well.

Leave on the side personal questions. Sounds strange to you. If you stop the questions he will speak by himself, no pressure and as much as freely as he likes. Too many questions will cause the negative results: he will feel that he is under pressure and will tell you what he thinks you want to hear. It is very important that  you will give him space to express himself and relieve his true face. Time and space; that is what he only needs to confess his secret. And the truth will be distinguished among the lies.

So that leads us to time. Because my friends, relationships are now superficial and extremely fast. In a very short time from learning someone we end up in bed and looking for the nearest emergency exit. Relationships are like marathons. Relax, it needs time to work something out. A relationship that lasts three months, is not a relationship but rather an one night stand on duration. Do not trivialize its meaning by pressing the fast forward button on your life. Pay attention to the person that earned your interest, take your time to ''measure'' his value, before letting him coming in your life completely this time.

Be clear on those things that you wish for and you want to receive. Perhaps not from the very first day but definitely from the beginning. It's not bad to claim something; this is the reality. The bad scenario is compromising yourself with something less, and having in mind that you might get what you want some day.

You should never beg for love, support your ideal standards and claim them. But you should always have in mind that before demanding something, you should be prepared to give as well. Be emotionally available with clear intentions.

Try to understand him. Leave your ego for a moment and be on his shoes. As long as you can, try to see in his soul. What is truly hidden in there. Don't judge him for what he says or have been through if you don't understand him first. He will talk with you about everything and you should listen to him. Recognize the meaning behind the words, the person behind actions.

You have read all the above again, I am sure. So, by now you should have realized that the value of a person is measured in moments. Every single detail means something, a lesson that you can be taught from it. From all these people that came, left and hurt you there is something common: You! You have given your permission to enter in your life based on wrong criteria. Those criteria made you suffer from pain every time. So, change them.

Your criteria should be based on your ideals, on your aspirations. I tried to show you a way how you should observe them on people. But this is the most far I can go; A guide to a successful acquaintance. The rest is up to you, a problem that you should solve by yourself. Look for that person who meets your ideal standards, who responds your expectations. Nothing less.

The right criteria is the key to safety which protect us from wrong choices.



Have a lovely evening people!




Love. Flower Girl. x

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                                                         Tuesday 18/10/2016


Looking strict today! Tuesday be like @ the office#FlowerGirlStyle#Duty Style

Baggy/loose stripped pants by Jona 

Chiffon blouse by Toi & Moi Fashion

Yellow silk vintage scarf

Androgynous hairstyle 

Love. FlowerGirl. x

FlowerGirl's Thoughts :)

Good Morning beautiful people!




Still Tuesday, boring vibes. I know!
Did you ever cross your mind that men appreciate a nice set of lingerie? Oh yes, they do.
If they are attracted to a woman they won't stop thinking what does she wear underneath her clothes.

Most of the times men do not notice the changes their wife/girlfriends/partners do. But this time you will go for shopping and buy something different which will grab their attention for sure.

You will wear your new set of lingerie, put your favourite perfume and you are ready. You have enough money wasted on shopping and time to be perfect so you cross your fingers that he won't stop watching your body even though you may believe he won't.

But I can assure you men appreciate a nice set of lingerie. They observe women's lingerie and if they have a good taste. They don't want her to be provocative but sexy. In other words, you don't need to try; just use your brain. To look at you so as what he can't see will be imagining. Otherwise does not worth at all if you give them all at once.

Because lingerie is like the cherry on top of a birthday cake. As much as nudity you want to show a slight piece of clothing on you is much better; is a detail. And details make the difference always.

But most of all it has to do with quality. Because sexiness can be dangerous. I am sure you don't want to give a false impression of a commonly woman but rather of an attractive, irresistible and fiery one.

Furthermore you want your partner to notice you and if you believe that he will do but doing only the basics then you are in delusional.

Your intention is to spice things up, to cause a fire, to turn him on. If you want to notice you then you have to be careful as well. There are some details that men will notice and you on the other will ignore. Rumours that men do not notice anything.

How will he see you if you are wearing the same old same boring every time? Shake them a bit and they will notice the detail.

If he likes what he sees, if he finds it beautiful and attractive it is impossible to ignore the sight. Whatever it comes to woman and desire can not stay unnoticeable. Men tend to remember things that you might have already forgotten.

For example the lingerie that he used to like and you have forgotten in your draw or the new set that you have bought and thought he will not notice. But he will! Especially if one day sees you in a new sexy old lingerie in compare to your old ones which are worn and washed so many times, he will definitely  be surprised.

I can assure you he won't check the label nor the design but he will take a look for sure. So, next time when you decide to go for shopping buy something on a good taste of sensuousness. And remember! Never underestimate your man.






Love. FlowerGirl. x
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Monday again! Back to work, daily routine and in office style of course.

 

 

 

Grey knitted top by Zara

 

Stripped cropped pants by Zara

 

Pointed black heels by Zara

 

White bag by Lanidor

 

Low chignon hairstyle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. FlowerGirl. x

FlowerGirl's Thoughts :)

                                                    5 things that happy women do

 

 

 

How many times did we wonder if we are truly happy? Come on let's be honest. Daily routine, fully busy, work and continuous innumerable thoughts, at some point we forgot to locate the true source of happiness. The majority of women desire mostly family, children and a steady professional career . But is the above opinion really related to our happiness?

You don't need to try so hard to understand what does it takes women to be truly happy and satisfied:

They trust themselves:

Most of women out there can not decide which pair of shoes to buy unless they don't ask their mum, sister or best friend. O K, it might have fun exchanging pictures with each other but the ability to think by yourself is a remarkable skill that its value will be clear while growing up. In order to succeed the so wanted confidence is though baby steps. So, next time you go for shopping try some shoes, think which you like the most and decide by yourself.

They are not afraid to make mistakes:

No, you are not Superwoman, you don't have a crystal ball and you weren't born perfect!( Sometimes I do feel like Superwoman because I have to deal with difficult situations and I manage to do so, so yes I do give credit on my self, and why shouldn't I?! )So, my point is that you will do mistakes all the time and that's O K. But what matters the most is the effort; if you don't try, how will you understand what you should fix or manage a situation? Even if the outcome is a total mess at least you tried. And that what makes the difference.

They are consistent with what they say

This might be the most difficult thing to do but it might change your life pretty soon. One simple thing is the nutrition matter.. You can't say that you keep a healthy nutrition guide or you are on a diet and in the night you eat the whole bucket of chicken, pizza, 2 burgers, fries, etc. Your actions are not consistent with your sayings. You can't say that you will save the 1/3 of your salary end of the month and go buy 3 pairs of shoes. Is not easy, I can imagine; baby steps, remember?

They don't compare themselves with others

The fact that one person might me more popular than you, has more money or better work position and a perfect partner does not mean that you can not succeed it as well. What others do have nothing to do with you and are not obstacles on your path to succeed what you most wish for. Rather than being jealous, take a deep breath! There is so much joy, happiness and money out there and as soon as you realise it the soonest you will get what you desire or you will realise that you had it all along!


They have learned to give with their heart

''I am fat, my hair is a nightmare, my love life is a disaster, I have the worst work position ever..'' Should we see further and beyond from our own shell? Did you ever wonder that helping a person you might actually feel better? Find ways that will offer you something more than a nice haircut or being a less kilo thinner. Generosity and magnanimity will make you feel a beautiful person. So give! Trust me.




Love. FlowerGirl. x

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                                                      Sunday 16/10/2016




Girl's night out! Having fun with bestie is all about Sunday. Forget all what makes us sad and be happy with people who love us. This is happiness according to FlowerGirl. Friends are rare nowadays.

 

 

Bohemian look

 

 

Off shoulder black dress by Nidodileda

 

Black velvet chocker and necklace by Asos

 

Low chignon hairstyle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. FlowerGirl. x

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        Good morning beautiful people and have a great week!




                           Whatever hurts us, makes us even more believing that is worth it




Here we go; again on the same boat. Days go by on a slow rhythm and you feel like you are on a constantly war inside you that is about to explode from the same thoughts over and over again.

Your mind has become your worst enemy especially in the nights and you wished you had amnesia.

You are in pain. And only you know how shamed you feel and how much more shamed you can feel when friends ask you why you are abstracted. But what will you say? Tell me; That you are still hoping? That you are still waiting for a phone call or a text message from the same phone number that once make your heart skip a bit? How will you reply? That in the nights you find yourself choking from the cigarettes' smoke and drinking a cheap wine?

How can you say and name what you are feeling when your feelings are so many and mixed up. How can you specify and characterize what is happening to you. One hand bitterness and one hand sadness. Thus, your need to blow up keeps growing dangerously and overly.

And then there is the need that you want to express everything that you are keeping inside you, which time makes it even worse. You want to go somewhere with no people to scream with all of your strength so as your inner world to be relieved. The need to disappear, no possible way to track you, so as you won't have to find yourself explaining to no one and you are too proud to ;let anyone see you how low you have fallen.

And all these because you are still hoping. You belch and you try with every possible way to yourself to realise that this person is not for you, to feel better and to move on. But regardless the efforts there is no outcome. There is no point being happy and indifferent. Because every time you return to an empty house, that person is away. He/she is away with whose presence was full house.


You are still in horrible pain from that ''goodbye''; keep recalling those words that you have exchanged to each other; There are moments that you are wearing the Superwoman/Superman suit and you feel strong, proud and you are laughing over that person that is in your thoughts again. You are smiling and keep repeating yourself that you are much better without him. (The truth:) But you are not.

You go out and meet people and then there is the comparison. You keep a list, putting X to all those possible 'candidates' that you can't bare talk or see anymore. There is no patience from your side to learn a person from the beginning. So you prefer loneliness instead of indifferent people around you.

And you are arguing with yourself that is still stuck with the past and you are ''flagellated'' that you don't have the strength anymore to press the ''delete'' button and free yourself.

You still hope and dream deep down. Is either forgetting everything or a sign from him, that he did not think how damaging the break up could be. And at the same time the fact that you know that this person causes so much pain to you, you realise that this person was not just something casual. Not an incident; Was everything.





Love. FlowerGirl. x

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                                                         Friday 14/10/2016


Lovely day strolling in the city; What if is Fall? Is still hot outside so let's keep on moving while we can.

 

 

 

Black dungarees by Zara

 

Khaki silk scarf by Next

 

Khaki sunnies by Calvin Klein

 

Oversized brown bag by Lanidor

 

Khaki espadrilles by Stradivarius

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. FlowerGirl.x

 

 

 

 

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Good Morning beautiful people





When you love someone you are happy for him/her even though you are apart

We keep hearing about the one true love. We see movies about couples who are willing and will do everything to be with their lover. Pictures of the couple kissing passionately while raining and novels with a happy ending. This is what we have learned, what we have been told about, what we understood. But in reality what is true love all about? Is it something that is worth killing and resurrecting you as well?

Love is more similar to an emotional disturbance; has nothing to do with logic and numbers. When mathematics and calculations are being involved in the middle then love is instantly dead. Observing a person who is in love I notice that he/she suffers from bipolar disorder. His/hers feelings are so confused, that would someone thought he/she is about to outburst. He/she is lost and all the time happy but with one only word can be sad instantly.
There is no explanation when it comes to a person who is in love.

Two people that are in love should be together. But what happens when the emotion is not the mutual from both sides? Human relationships are beautiful, but usually they are painful because there is no response and reciprocal.

Only then you realise if is true love or just a crush. Crush is all about ego and pressure, but love is all about pure interest and dreams. A person who is love is happy no matter what, provided his/her love is in a good place.

When it comes to love there is no confirmation. You should be happy with what you are feeling. These emotions give you life, make you see the sky and smile. Suddenly you give a s**t on what you will wear, how you look, and your education. You want to make conservations and get to know the other person. Love changes your whole life but not in the way people say it does. You keep trying to be better and you pursued to learn new things through communication with other people.

The pretty side of love is not the one that you will see each other in the morning but the one that keeps you smiling. Loving and kissing each other is as well a beautiful feeling, reanimates you but our life is not all about the relationship; it is though about the love. A feeling that makes you fly up in the sky and abruptly lands you; like a daily magic craziness.

Of course it is normal that relationships won't last for ever because we contact daily with different people; but this does not mean that the feeling won't last. Two people that fell in love with each other and now are friends, they are still in love. Love subsides and hides itself; does not need ''titles'' to be heard or permanence. These people do not shout, cry nor are jealous. Why? Because their feelings are true, they are happy just because of this fact and they want the same for the other person: to be happy with anything.

The real problem with nowadays is that people confuse the meaning of this strong feeling called true love making a jealousy scene. If only we were all truly in love with people and things, then our world would have been a bit prettier.



Love. FlowerGirl. x

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Office#FlowerGirlStyle#Coolurstyle#whatiamwearingtoday#fashionlovers#fashionaddict

 

 

 

White Bodycon by Topshop

 

Green skirt by Oasis

 

Nude heels by Zara

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Love. FlowerGirl. x

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                                     Why Crying A Lot Means You're Mentally Tough




Some of history's toughest people have openly cried - often in public, such as George Washington, Obama and Abraham Lincoln. And why wouldn't they? According to psychologists, crying is actually a sign of mental strength.

1. Crying Means You're Not Afraid of Emotions

Confronting your emotions is not easy. Believe me, suppressing emotions such as disappointment, sadness, anger or frustration is the easiest way when they are negative. But crying forces you to confront whatever you are feeling; it requires strength, bravery and the ability to look inwards.
  

      2.  Crying Shows A Lack of Concern For Social Expectations

Men who cry are stigmatized as weak and unmanly. When women cry, they are often called crazy and dramatic. Crying despite stigmatization shows that you are not afraid to put social convention aside if it means dealing with your overwhelming emotions. That's strength, my friend.  feel so.

      3.  Crying Makes You a Leader

Let's say you and a group receive some upsetting news. If you decide to be strong and shed the first tear, the other will go ''Hey, I guess it is okay to show emotion right now''. Therefore by openly crying, you liberate people around you.
Congrats, you 've just made yourself a leader - one that people won't fear judgement from.


      4.   Crying Shows That You Know Hot Offload Stress Before It Breaks You

For many people, crying relieves built up stress that could easily become damaging if not dealt with properly. I believe so as well. So, I do believe that strength is about much more than hardiness. So a strong person is like a good structure that relieves stress effectively before it becomes destructive.


So yes, whenever you find yourself crying is a sign of mental strength. If you feel like crying then cry; you will feel much better, confront your emotions and deal with the current situation becoming even stronger. At the end of day we will always find ourselves fighting over ''demons''.



Love. FlowerGirl. x