You don't need to try so hard to understand what does it takes women to be truly happy and satisfied:
They trust themselves:
Most of women out there can not decide which pair of shoes to buy unless they don't ask their mum, sister or best friend. O K, it might have fun exchanging pictures with each other but the ability to think by yourself is a remarkable skill that its value will be clear while growing up. In order to succeed the so wanted confidence is though baby steps. So, next time you go for shopping try some shoes, think which you like the most and decide by yourself.
They are not afraid to make mistakes:
No, you are not Superwoman, you don't have a crystal ball and you weren't born perfect!( Sometimes I do feel like Superwoman because I have to deal with difficult situations and I manage to do so, so yes I do give credit on my self, and why shouldn't I?! )So, my point is that you will do mistakes all the time and that's O K. But what matters the most is the effort; if you don't try, how will you understand what you should fix or manage a situation? Even if the outcome is a total mess at least you tried. And that what makes the difference.
They are consistent with what they say
This might be the most difficult thing to do but it might change your life pretty soon. One simple thing is the nutrition matter.. You can't say that you keep a healthy nutrition guide or you are on a diet and in the night you eat the whole bucket of chicken, pizza, 2 burgers, fries, etc. Your actions are not consistent with your sayings. You can't say that you will save the 1/3 of your salary end of the month and go buy 3 pairs of shoes. Is not easy, I can imagine; baby steps, remember?
They don't compare themselves with others
The fact that one person might me more popular than you, has more money or better work position and a perfect partner does not mean that you can not succeed it as well. What others do have nothing to do with you and are not obstacles on your path to succeed what you most wish for. Rather than being jealous, take a deep breath! There is so much joy, happiness and money out there and as soon as you realise it the soonest you will get what you desire or you will realise that you had it all along!
They have learned to give with their heart
''I am fat, my hair is a nightmare, my love life is a disaster, I have the worst work position ever..'' Should we see further and beyond from our own shell? Did you ever wonder that helping a person you might actually feel better? Find ways that will offer you something more than a nice haircut or being a less kilo thinner. Generosity and magnanimity will make you feel a beautiful person. So give! Trust me.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
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