Some say when you find your ''guy'' the signs will be obvious. And no, you don't feel butterflies nor burl in your stomach, or your knees shaking like a child does, as they may say. In the contrary you are surrounded by a felling of integration and peacefulness without a trace of shame, awkwardness and palpitation.
Many people have refused the idea of a ''soulmate'' and believed that nothing of such thing exists. And others have lived their whole life with people who don't consider that is their ''guy'' and having family as well. But how can we name a person that is our ''person'' and how can we be sure that this person was made for us?
It is simple; Because you will recognize your ''guy'' from miles away without even approaching you. He is that kinda of person that your bond is strong and when you are together you two become ''one''; invisible, almighty, and unbeatable which is almost impossible to break.
He is not that kind of person that makes your knees shaking nor to have butterflies in your stomach, but the opposite: he gives you a heavenly calmness that comforts you mentally and completely.
He is the one who though his humbleness and simplicity has manage to get rid of the ''supernumerary'' who tried to take his place. The place, the ''throne'' that you kept empty so as the ''right'' person would come and and be able to claim it.
He is the one, that while you are sleeping together your breaths find their way to synchronize with each other, who will always make sure that your body is covered with sheets on. He is the one that will teach you to make a sentence without ''but'' and perhaps each word coming from him is accompanied by an action confirming his own words.
He is the one who despite acknowledging your terrible ego, will make a step behind and will call you again because he can't bare the thought, the idea of you two will go to bed angry.
He is the one who believes that time is a luxury nowadays and he is not willing to throw his relationship in to the bin over a stupid fight and because of the fact that you may be selfish this will last a whole week.
He is the one who is majestic, the severity and honesty dominant, but when he is in a room with you will be transformed in a minute to an innocent sweet child waiting from you to show him how much you love him.
He is the kind of person that your problem will be his as well and automatically he divide your stress in two. He will be upset and bitter twice the size on every failure and unhappiness of yours.
He will you be your voice every time you are in difficulty to speak and the one that will give you strength to go on. Respect according to him is something holly and he wants people around him to to respect him as well.
He is the person who is less possessive, makes you his ''person'' but gives you freedom at the same time so as you will be always turning back to him. He is the person who is selective and discerning, who chose you from his ''garden'' to irrigate you daily with beautiful moments and actions that cultivated your mind and soothe your soul.
He is the one that you can't find the correct not even the most beautiful words to characterize him. He is the one that you want to reveal that he is your ''person'' and you consider him necessary in your life. You want to open yourself to him and spend hours and hours explaining how he brought peace in your soul.
Did you even tell him or not yet? Tell him NOW. And while he will be listening, he will smile and won't interrupt you to answer your questions for all those feelings he caused you.
He will only laugh with sweetness, hold you in his arms, give you a big hug and kiss you. And trust me, you won't get prettier answer than this.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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