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                                                             Heartbreak: Deal with it ASAP


Break up, sadness, hate, suspense, madness, nerves but not necessarily on the same order. These feelings are interchangeable. But this is how you feel when you break up. Spontaneously, indistinct and synchronously emotions will overwhelmed you with the outcome to react as a mad person.

But no matter how painful is the ''heartbreak'' it can be treated as followed:

Feel all the emotions as they come. Anger, sadness, outburst, dormancy, madness. Don't try to hide them. Is pointless keeping them inside you; Don't push your self to keep them; It is better to let them out.

Put a deadline to yourself; You should and must not be sad non stop; You should set some boundaries. At the beginning you will cry, you will hear love songs about break ups, you will be isolated from everyone and everything. But for a period of time. After that slowly slowly you should come to your senses. Of course it depends how deep you are in love with your ex; too deep then the longer time you will need. But what will help you the most is that you should always have in mind that at the end of day what matters the most is you to be O K. You should do whatever makes you well and only.

If it hurts you knowing where he is, what he does and you harm your self by checking him on instagram, Facebook then delete him. Block him now. Pretend that does not exist; he is dead to you; Don't hang with common friends and restart your life. Go out, meet people, new friends, new beginning; change scenario.

Make a list with things that you want to do. A weekend with your best friends, shopping therapy, yoga class, anything that cheers you up. Every week write down something new and exciting to do.

Put everything, gifts, whatever came from him, in to a little box. Disappear everything that reminds you of him. Free the room from his energy ASAP.

Change decoration in your bedroom and all the places in the house if possible; Nothing should remind your ex. Do drastic changes; Psychological you will feel better like you have moved out.

Buy sexy lingerie. It doesn't matter if you are single; it only matters you and only feeling confident and having sex appeal.

Change your colour hair; Maybe now is the time to bleach your hair and be blonde like you always wanted? Remember Donna at that 70's show when she broke up with Eric she went blonde??

Read an exciting book. An adventurous one. Definitely NOT a love story, a science fiction.

If you don't feel well staying at home, if you feel lonely then go and stay to a friend as long as you need and like. It is better having people by your side when in need. Either way you will be texting or calling her all the time so better go and be with her.

You should go out, party, see who ever you like, try new things, go on a date even if it turns out to be a failure, go crazy with your friends and experience a second puberty kind of time.










Love. Flower Girl. x