When you love someone you are happy for him/her even though you are apart
We keep hearing about the one true love. We see movies about couples who are willing and will do everything to be with their lover. Pictures of the couple kissing passionately while raining and novels with a happy ending. This is what we have learned, what we have been told about, what we understood. But in reality what is true love all about? Is it something that is worth killing and resurrecting you as well?
Love is more similar to an emotional disturbance; has nothing to do with logic and numbers. When mathematics and calculations are being involved in the middle then love is instantly dead. Observing a person who is in love I notice that he/she suffers from bipolar disorder. His/hers feelings are so confused, that would someone thought he/she is about to outburst. He/she is lost and all the time happy but with one only word can be sad instantly.
There is no explanation when it comes to a person who is in love.
Two people that are in love should be together. But what happens when the emotion is not the mutual from both sides? Human relationships are beautiful, but usually they are painful because there is no response and reciprocal.
Only then you realise if is true love or just a crush. Crush is all about ego and pressure, but love is all about pure interest and dreams. A person who is love is happy no matter what, provided his/her love is in a good place.
When it comes to love there is no confirmation. You should be happy with what you are feeling. These emotions give you life, make you see the sky and smile. Suddenly you give a s**t on what you will wear, how you look, and your education. You want to make conservations and get to know the other person. Love changes your whole life but not in the way people say it does. You keep trying to be better and you pursued to learn new things through communication with other people.
The pretty side of love is not the one that you will see each other in the morning but the one that keeps you smiling. Loving and kissing each other is as well a beautiful feeling, reanimates you but our life is not all about the relationship; it is though about the love. A feeling that makes you fly up in the sky and abruptly lands you; like a daily magic craziness.
Of course it is normal that relationships won't last for ever because we contact daily with different people; but this does not mean that the feeling won't last. Two people that fell in love with each other and now are friends, they are still in love. Love subsides and hides itself; does not need ''titles'' to be heard or permanence. These people do not shout, cry nor are jealous. Why? Because their feelings are true, they are happy just because of this fact and they want the same for the other person: to be happy with anything.
The real problem with nowadays is that people confuse the meaning of this strong feeling called true love making a jealousy scene. If only we were all truly in love with people and things, then our world would have been a bit prettier.
Love. FlowerGirl. x
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