Love is the drug by nature
When you are in love you feel very happy. And this is a drug, a drug coming from the body's hormones; a biological drug. Just think about it; if love did not exist, the world would have stopped to exist as well, because sex and only is nothing on its own.
If there is no love, sex is 0. No one would have fallen to it, if the ''drug'' love was not existed. Love is the bait. Real desire by nature is reproduction. But nature can not rely on you for this. If love does not conquer you, you won't be reproduced.
Nature gives you a drug; it is being released in your body naturally, biologically and hormonally.Therefore when someone is in love, sees life differently. He/ She does not live in the world of everyday life. He/ She lives in a world of phantasy, craving and dreams; does not live in reality. He /She is on drug, without realising it.
And after of few days, when the love is gone - because no drug lasts for ever - you start facing reality and therefore comes the torture. Because whatever you have promised, you did it when you had lost your consciousness. Now you have to make real promises which you have given when you were at a time of consciousness' absence. Now the burden is bigger.
Each love story ends up ugly in the end. Why? Why are all marriages sink? Because is not an action after conscious' choice. If you love consciously then the love is eternally, because within consciousness everything is forever. Without it, everything is temporary.
If you can love with your conscious then you are being erected. Because love becomes strength which completes you. It becomes awareness. Within the relationship you become even more conscious. You care about the other person, but you don't use him/her. You care and you share, but you don't own him/her. You set the other person free and within you set yourself as well. You become two co-travellers on a long journey.
You help each other because there are traps. The road is long and the trip is endless and it is an amazing bless being with someone sharing everything with him/her, each pain, every agony, every joy, every moment of silence. Someone with whom you can communicate, tell him/her what bothers you and to rely on him/her for help whatever is going on, to count on him/her that she/he will love you whatever the situation, bad or good, moments of anger or joy, sadness or happiness.
You don't hide anything from the person you love. You are vulnerable and open to him/her. There is no defence mode towards him/her; Love does not come with terms; Love is unconditional.
Conscious love is a completely different phenomenon. It happens rare, but when it hits you, you just know it; is one of the most beautiful things that could ever happen to you.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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