One of the most unreasonable things when it comes to human nature is that day by day is being evolved and improved becomes more complicated, not only for others but also he/she can not simplify nor handle it.
At the beginning when it comes to relationship's matter things were simple; one man, one woman and the reproduction instinct. Simple and specified things.But withing our evolution we began to confuse needs, pleasures, feelings and rationality.
Love, respect and understanding are important things in a relationship, and you shouldn't compromise in less when you decide to focus on your relationship but how are all these above related to good sex?
We have sex, a pleasure which comes from our basic instinct, and on the other hand we have relationship and the human demand for spiritual communication but there is a way good sex and spiritual communication to exist in the same house but rare in the same room and same moment.
Understanding and communication exist in the living room in the morning and good sex in the bedroom in the night.
Of course there is always a chance that your relationship is a part time job; it has the half things that needs to theoretically work a relationship. Can a relationship exist only based on good sex and no sign of understanding at all?
Good sex in short term is enough to keep a relationship going, respect and understanding on the other hand and only without the love game cannot keep a relationship, but for girlfriends/boyfriends works just fine.
Good sex does not require spiritual communication. You may like a person during sex, but after smoking with him/her can't find anything to talk about. Sex does not come with respect, understanding, nor communication. It only needs chemistry which is not only spiritual but mostly bodily.
I don't argue those that say that a real good sex comes from the mind first, I strongly support this as well, but when you think about the subject further people will meet so many different lovers and partners in life, some will be interesting but what about those who are great in bed but a mess when it comes to talking should we burn them in hell? Shame, right?!
People who understand and support you, you call them friends, and unfortunately not all friends can satisfy you spiritually and sexually; Thus good sex without analyzing it should not be underestimated. but a pleasure without guilt if you try it.
Of course I refer to mature's people relationship always by their choice and only ignoring the spiritual contact. If you find this kind of relationship too much, then of course you are not oblige to go through it; you are always free to look for the ideal relationship, communication as a standard term, but good sex will be always one of our main highly standards even if we are moaning that people are being isolated. Because communication is good, sure , but after a long time of a good spiritual communication and sexual drought, you will easily fall grey to temptations.
When you find in a person good sex you won't easily leave, not because you won't find it again, but of the chemistry which grows between you both and rejuvenates you and this is something that is difficult leaving; you can find sex, but you won't find chemistry.
Most attractive part on good sex is that it comes without terms and conditions, you don't need a fairy tale, romanticism sometimes is being included, without commitments and promises in compare to relationship.
And if on day you decide to look for commitment, you can leave without tragic break ups and begging because with this person you did not share your soul with, only just a bed, two cigarettes and a few carefree hours, simple and beautiful ones without those tedious complexities of passionate and eternal love.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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