Relationships : )

                                                 




                                                                                  Be honest



Good morning beautiful people!

What if love at first sight has strike on you while you are already in a relationship?

What a nerve! Especially love at first sight, men. Rude to the bone and with extremely confidence comes without knocking your door or ask your permission to come in. Comes in your life and you don't even want to. And then comes total chaos.

It disrupts you, throws you in it. But you have to admit it that deep down you like it.

Love at first sight knows how to be done. It will''buy'' and ''sell'' you at the same time. It will make you do things which you never thought about it.

This is how it is. Restless and hyperactive. And you are willing to take this risk without second thought. Besides what does it matter few junks in the way in compare to the chill, the goose that you will feel every time butterflies flit in your stomach?

Did I say every time? Be honest, how many times did you fell in love at first sight? I say ''many times'' because this sort of love comes immediately from the outside and goes like the flash. And if you name this love at the beginning ''for ever'', fortunately or unfortunately most of the times has expiration date.

It comes to awake unexpected emotions and then goes to confirm its submissive nature. This makes it to count worthy one of the best feelings that anyone can experience.

In his/her face you see everything that you ever wanted. You live the absolutely madness in his/her hands, and although you might be scared you want to live it like there is no tomorrow.

But there is sometimes tomorrow, the day after tomorrow, in three days. What do you do when you fell in love while being in relationship on in a marriage? How can  you be faithful, pressing brake to this feeling that comes on a breakneck speed?

And you will answer that this can not be done if you are in a good place with your partner. But it depends how ''good' and how you say it.

It is really difficult to believe that, after so many summers, from the day you have met him/her till now, when you see him/her every time to glow your eyes. So theoretically speaking cupid is gone. This is a different matter though.

Bottom line is that there is no longer.And if, it lies somewhere in negligible amounts and it has been replaced by (romance)love. Besides only love can handle routine and problems along arising from the relationship or marriage.

But, as you already know, love with passion and romance love are two different things. So what can you do? You write down, advantages, disadvantages  and then you decide. Will you throw everything that you have to live to the maximum the love that has blown your mind or will you stay with the person who you have chosen to spend the rest of your life with?

But have in mind, that whatever you choose, passionate love, love at first sight will come again on your doorstep.






Love. Flower Girl. x