Monday again. Another week begins so let's be positive. For all those days that have finished and you start complaining that you did not do anything; either you had no time, or you keep postponing them for tomorrow, for the next month for no specific reason at all.
No more ''from Monday'' I will do this and this and that. Whatever you want to do, do it NOW. Good or bad life goes on and we are running behind of it. Stop running behind it and start go with it. So, pick up the phone now and go do those theatre's lessons that you have always wanted to and you were thinking there is no reason of doing them.
Start going to the gym which you have registered 3 months ago and you only went twice from then. Go, meet your friends, drink that coffee that you have talking about weeks ago and stop describing what will you, or that you will eat a perfect lemon pie or cheese cake on a nice place.
Put your pretty ideal for Fall dress that you keep in your wardrobe only for special occasions. Which special occasion are you waiting for? Do you have a red carpet invitation perhaps? Live every day like is a special circumstance. Make it special no matter if it wasn't. I don't like those people that dress up like they are going on a Hollywood premier, or on Emmy Awards just to go out and when they are going on a friend's house they are total mess. Dress up for you and no one else.
I have the same opinion as well for the place we live. Just observe the house how it is and you will understand the psychology of the person who lives in. If you live in a house which you don't like it then do something about it. ''Baby'' steps will change your mood. Don't wait Christmas to decorate your living room. Go buy those red, green, orange, white chairs for your kitchen. Mix and match. Put some candles on, even if your living alone. The place you stay in reflects your mood.
Trips; another chapter to talk about; I keep hearing that everyone wants to travel but no one actual does it. And when you ask them the excuse-answer is simple; financial problems among others. But nowadays come on; you can find cheap destinations in Europe. So I come to the conclusion that money is an excuse. Travelling is one of the most beautiful experiences in life. You always come back full of psychic energy and it is something that you will be talking about for all your life. So, before convincing your self that you are depressed should you first book a trip in Spain somewhere in the country and visiting a village as you have always been dreaming about?
See, all these steps are baby steps but they fill you with joy. Going for a walk late in the night drinking Breezer on the beach. Hanging at a friend's place in the night and ending up partying all night long till morning. Buying that vintage dress or coat at last even though you were saying that does not express you. And for god's sake stop talking too much and listen what the rest has to say; your friend is sad then cry with him and laugh when he/she is happy. Be exposed, otherwise what is life all about? Don't be bothered what others say. Be jealous but not begrudge.
Push your self to work our, although you are exhausted. Follow whatever makes you happy even it's something stupid, if is either ''group yoga'' or ''free yachting lessons''. I am fed up hearing I will go, or seeing ''I am interested'' on Facebook and no one actually does anything.
Read more and stress less. Surprise your partner and buy gifts to your loving ones for no specific reason. And I strongly disagree to those that say ''sleep less live more''. Sleep as long as you wish and live the rest of your day with quality. Sleep is happiness; why should we deprive our selves?
Tell ''I love you'' every day to those you are feeling so. It is free and no, it does not make it special if you say it once and then. Say it whenever you feel it so. Life is too short to be sad, my friend. Love as much as you like and laugh freely.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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