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                                               4 signs that you are in a wrong relationship

We all know that in order to have a healthy relationship there should be an effort from both side, mutual understanding and retreats as well as real and effective conversations with our partners. But although sometimes you are really trying to reduce differences and problems it's just not good enough to function correctly the relationship. Below are 4 signs that show you that your partner might not be the one and only for you and your relationship cannot further continue:

• You don't feel anymore your self

Your personality and those things that make you unique and special have being reduced or banished completely. Unfortunately this happen to most of the relationships and even gradually without realising it. Our partner often tries to ''control' us or critics us something he claims a love attitude and concern. Therefore this make us by time to loose our self and comes a time that we do not recognize our own self. But this does not mean that he is to blame 100%. We cause it as well from our wrong concept of love as 'sacrifice' which is wrong and not as mutual concessions from both side, which is the correct way.

• You keep trying to prove your worthiness

This is bad trying to prove your worthiness to the outside world and most of us women do it. But if you are trying to prove your worthiness in your relationship well something is definitely wrong. Trying to get his support of fulfilling your dreams, you barely talk about your self, you are feeling invisible, you partner does not listen to you carefully. Of course, it is not your partners' task to make you feel ''good enough'' but it is his obligation to create a safe place to make your best version of yourself ( to develop your self); And in no circumstance should your relationship make you feel invisible.

• You feel like you are just an observer in your relationship

Going out together, going to the movies, having dinner, you will always remember the important dates, you will always buy a nice gift for your partner but again you feel like something is missing. The relationship is based on the routine and not on your passion. And if you feel like your partner is to blame for then you should stop planning a marriage since it is not meant to be together.

• You have ''broken up'' with your self

At some point you stopped your relationship with your self; You believed that if you change yourself you could have done much goodness in you relationship. The result though is not that you have expected; You and your needs are out of the picture and this is more than enough to realise that your relationship is doing you harm rather than good and that will never work.



Love. Flower Girl. x