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                                          10 huge mistakes that women do in a relationship

1. Recognize your value

If you like to chase ''bad boys'', then sorry ladies but you have to reconsider your taste on men. A relationship with a guy who behaves bad and does not communicate with you creates loneliness and self pity. You only live constantly in fear that you are not good enough and that you will not be loved. The truth is that no one deserves this, and only you can save yourself from such unhealthy relationship as soon as you realize it.

    2. Eliminate your manly side

Truth is that there are women who are very strong and show it in a daily basis on their professional and social life. This however some times has the opposite results to approach a guy. For some ironic reason their success on other general levels makes it impossible to succeed on a personal level. Thus those women should embrace their feminine side and let the man who is involved to handle the personal level. Each one has his/her own part. 

    3. Try to understand men

Women tend to believe and say that men don't understand us but if you think about it we as well tend to do the same. Women who tend to try how the manly mind works, are those one who have kissed ''a frog and transformed him to a prince''. Women are more complicated than men, and men handle things more simple something that we consider naive. If you know the way to inspire your partner then he will try to ''serve'' you: he is made for this. Learn to understand your partner and to justify your differences, so as to appreciate the person standing next to you.

     4. Don't try to change him

There is nothing worse for a man being with a woman who thinks everything is wrong on him and tries constantly to ''fix'' him like she would like to be. Men perceive critic as something serious. Most of the times they feel insulted and mentally castrated. Men like to feel that are being appreciated and this makes them feel proud.

     5. Start to really appreciate what he does for you

Although you may discuss with your friends about all the good stuff which your partner has done for you but most of the times you do not realize in which you are referring to or what is the one thing that has pleased you the most. Therefore you don't realize how important are those things that he has done for you. So leave your self centered ego and really focus on those that your partner has contributed to happen.

     6. You don't share with him your own charisma

Women tend to forget their feminine side that nature has gifted them: the willing to protect and take care of somebody. If you don't turn back the good actions that your partner has done for you through your own charisma he will be disappointed and therefore show it to you in various ways. It is important in your relationship to give and share and be appreciated.

    7.  You create drama instead of memories

Men are simple human beings. They like to solve problems and make things look easy. They tend to be cool and careless when they don't work on something specific and hate to spend time on something that has no perspective. They are lack of energy when women are drama queens. If you want his attention, then create a nice memory for him, something to remind him that was a beautiful moment and wants to live it again. If you create moments of misery, affliction and tension he will be tired and eventually will leave you.

     8.  Don't ruin his trust 

If your partner feels that you are the one then is for sure that he will want to feel safe within your relationship and trust you like a blind does. Men commitments are deep. A good guy has high standards and if you want to keep him you have to be honest.

    9. Don't force things to happen

Biggest mistake that most of the woman majority does: they meet a guy, get excited forget the whole procedure on being in a relationship and after a week they believe that they will get marry. This is a procedure that men are afraid of, because they want to live, get tested in a relationship, detect and at the end choose if it's the ''one'', not press the fast-forward button. The procedure of choosing for them is very important because they like to feel free to think. Forcing or/and pressuring a guy is something that will bring an outcome that you won't like and plus is not flattering you.

    10. Try to inspire him and therefore make him see a future with you

Listen to his wishes and needs, make sure to find out what he likes and what are his priorities. Create an environment that has perspectives. All people have the urge to find a companion on their life, not just a person that can follow but also one that adds beautiful experiences, visions and goals.

Love. Flower Girl. x