9 things that men want from you but they will never ask from you
We all desire the same things, women and men, but men will never admit them:
- Respect: Although you may know it yourself but you don't: above everything else this is what they most desire. In practice this means that you have to give value on their thoughts, ideas, actions and feelings.
- Admiration: O K, you are aware about this by now if you consider mothers raising up their sons complimenting them every minute. This means that in order to appreciate your admiration you have to say something special to them.
- Comradeship: Sure they need their freedom on Sunday watching football with their friends but the rest of days he likes watching movies, with you next to him on the couch.
- The appearance of their girlfriend: Men really like when the woman of their life spends some time for herself. You don't need to be super models to make him happy. The fact that you only trying to look as better as you can satisfies his ego.
- The volume of your voice: Men do notice a woman's voice volume (observe how they comment your friends). O K, you won't be Marilyn Monroe, but you can always try. They response much easier when you have a kind voice volume.
- Encouragement: They like from us to give them courage. They want their woman to support and be there for them. Loyalty is very important for them. And they believe they will succeed everything better in this way. And, at the same, will do the same for you (give - take, vice-versa).
- Gratitude: A simple ''thank you'' and a smile can mean the world to him. I am sure he has done something for you ( take you to dinner, take the car to the garage, did the food shopping) that he should and worth to be thanked for.
- Recognition: Some times men have different roles in their life and must do many things for their friends and family. Take some time to say these things to your partner so as they will understand that they are being appreciated.
- Independence: Men love it. This does not mean though that they want to be alone all the time but they would love to do something without asking permission or feeling guilty about it.
- Support: Remember Steve on Sex And The City on that episode that he wanted Miranda's support on a basketball competition? Every guy needs the support of their girlfriend/wife.
- Desire: Men have the need to flirt, desire and show them that you are lucky to be with them.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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