Relationships : )

                                 



 Do you desire a healthy relationship? Then say the 2 magic words


It only takes just 2 words and is not what you are thinking about.


No, is not the ''I love you'', nor ''I want you'', or ''I adore you''.


''Thank you''. Two simple words which makes you feel happy when you hear them. But why couples do not share these 2 words to each other often?

According to William James, an American psychologist, respect is the greatest value in human nature. Is a gift that comes free, but means a lot to many people. If you show the slightest respect through effective communication then this will help to improve your relationship.

Good interpersonal relations are based on respect. And showing such good emotions should be not considered weakness. On the contrary, gratitude and appreciation are the main keys to improve relationships and productiveness at work and in general might contribute on the quality of our life.

In reality though people do not say easily ''thank you''. Is it something that we can't find the time to say it or are we being just stubborn and selfish? Or maybe we take everything for granted and find it unnecessary to say it. But as much as you want to be appreciated so does each person standing next you to confirmed as well.

Unfortunately we don't appreciated and we are only expecting from others! Why should or partner to wash the dishes only because he loves us? This trick ''if you love me, you will....'' is not a proof of a healthy happy relationship. A ''thank you'' is good enough for taking out the trash.

And if you start acting so, then don't stop! Every time you receive something, bring you coffee, cook for you do not forget to always say thank you to that person!

Same psychologist insists that ''wisdom's technique is the knowledge of omission''. So when things do not go as you may planned do not start saying ''I told you so'', ''You are unable of completing a task''.

Some times better to forget what has bothered you, step aside your own needs and keep doing what you were doing having in mind your partner's needs.

Appreciation is never a waste of time and always ''returnable''. Confirming our tries in a relationship gives us always a motive to balance, appreciation and self respect. Recognize what does each for the other do. What does he do good? Remind him that he is a good guy and does things for you. Offer him your gratitude by saying ''thank you'' and you will feel good afterwards. And pretty soon it will returned back to you!!!!




Love. Flower Girl. x