Friends will call, text, email you to wish you the best either is your birthday, name day or whatever the occasion. This is what you have been hearing since you were a child and this is what you wish for as we. To be happy... Yes. But what does the word ''happiness'' mean to you?
If you close your eyes for a while and imagine your self lying in your baby bed and on top on you there is an angel, what kind of happiness would you have asked him during you whole life? What would make you happy every day?
Happiness, although it is considered as a request, tends in general to have a unique view and interpretation. Which means that not everyone consider happiness with the same meaning. Despite that books are written, lectures are taking place, seminars, movies with the intention to acknowledge the meaning regards to soul and not the material.
But the issue is that we do not have enough and we are not happy with what we have. If you are as well, like the most people of us, accustomed to act according to a particular orbit of thinking, then it is difficult to imagine your self differently or to understand realities that you did not leave.
Let's start with these, daily that we take for granted. You are alive. Yes, because only staying in life you understand the meaning of death; As much as anyone can possibly understand of course. You shout ''YOLO'' in every chance yet you live every single day but you only die once. You have both of your hands and legs, you have a family, you have a house and someone to love you. Yes, he does exist out there, stop moaning. You get to see the sun, the mountains, the see, the cement. Well at least is something! You get to go to the cinema and chill watching a movie either is dram, action, sad or comedy and you go back home and sleep. Could you ever imagine yourself as a real main actor of such a everyday reality?
The agony to have more and more material goods is only imaginary and undercurrents a weak ''ego'' which has been trained precisely in this way in order to live under the agony of a prisoner. This captivity involves big houses, fast cars, expensive clothes and jewelry so as happiness can be seen. And while you have all the above, still you are not satisfied, you sink in depression and become a prey of dependencies that camouflaged what you desire the most.
So take a piece of paper and write down your goals and dreams, imagine yourself as a better version of it, and live from your comfort zone to bloom yourself. We carry the image pretty much wherever we may go, it;s the smell that we are missing. But to bloom you have first believe that you are good enough and that you are worth it; otherwise you are f***** up. Put your thoughts in harmony with words and actions, choose happiness as a lifestyle and as as the people that play an important part in this. Yes, these are your options.
And sometimes you should be brave to clear everything up; Clothes, shoes, accessories, documents, pictures, record and whatever that you are longer use. And step away from toxic people and take off the masks that you sometimes you tend to wear.
You get to be happy because you decide to be happy. You realize that is coming within you, because only you are responsible for your thoughts and your feelings. If you leave your self in others' hands to be complete then you leave them the possibility of your happiness to them as well.
Tomorrow morning then, just before you get up to live instead of counting bills and debts, think at least about three reasons that make you happy. And when you leave your house search for smiles and optimism. Change the way you see things and things will automatically change!
And this will only can be done if you set happiness as a value that you choose to have everyday in your life and not as a purpose that you are trying to reach to feel happy and complete. Because at the end, as much as you try to get the meaning you loose the substance and substance contains the whole meaning.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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