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                                                                  The 6 break up stages


They say men are the ones who really know what break up is all about. When it is not their call they experience a lot of pain for a long time in compare to us, their pain has no voice therefore is more painful; women cry, scream, shout but eventually we will overcome it.. They, on the other hand may never overcome the break up.. Are men more sensitive than women after all?

When is not up to you and you have to break is something painful; either crying on your best friend's arms or going though the whole phase alone you will face these 6 stages below:

Desperation

First stage is the ''I can't live without her/him''. Trying to sleep in the night with your partner is painful and endless and so the following night for days even months. The sense of loss makes us feel hopeless, that we will not be able to fall in love again, to smile again and have amazing moments like those we shared with our ex.

Trying to reconnect

Texting, calls, even visiting; depending from our ego of course. Some have no ego and texting and calling all the time, some do have and keep their self together from texting less. But we will might regret sending those messages in the end.

Grief

When we finally realise that the break up is real and final then we face the most painful pain of all stages. We do not scream or cry on the outside but the pain at this stage is inside us which is the worst. We feel more alone than ever, even if we go out every single day.

Anger

All the previous stages at this point will make us feel angry. Angry of texting those horrible messages, angry with our ex, angry with our self. We might meet someone at this stage but at the end we end up by hurting him/her just because we are not ready to move on to another relationship. But if our ex is with someone else we will be tremendous jealous.

Perception

And we will wake up one morning and realise that we are now in good place, we found our self through this whole painful procedure, learn from our mistake and realise what went wrong this time so as to be better next time.

The future - the ''next day''

It's the day that finally we can smile again. And soon enough we will be falling in love again. And we will have great moments like those with our ex or not. Better ones that those.



So SMILE! We all have experienced pain from break ups. But we are smiling. This is life; we make mistakes learn from them and make us more mature.






Love. Flower Girl. x