TGIF! YAY! Finally this week is almost over. Few more hours in the office and we are out of here. It's been really crazy from the morning. What is wrong with people today? They behave like lunatics, have no manners, shouting over silly things and demanding all the time.
Is this how they have been brought up by their parents? Or they have lost their sanity? I don't understand. A lady should be a lady. And a gentleman should be a gentleman. Where are the good guys have gone? Is there a lady out there? Is there a gentleman at all nowadays? A nice guy with good manners knows how to treat to a lady. Respect and appreciate her for all the good things that she can offer to him. No. Unfortunately there are no gentlemen. In fact there are no men; only boys and girls fooling around and taking everything for granted.
A woman when she knows that her man loves her can offer him everything. She is his queen, standing next to him and supporting him on good and bad days. And he is there for her listening to her worries, hug her and say to her that everything is going to be O K.
Is it so hard to put your ego on the side and try for once to behave descent? For the name of love! Why do people keep putting their ego above everything else? It is not their ego that is going to support and love them but their soul mate. It is not their ego that is going to grab their hand on bad times and support them. Why are people afraid so much of commitment? Why don't people want to evolve themselves and instead choose to stay the same for their entire life?
Being alone it may help us to find ourselves but being alone for a long time it is not healthy for sure. You get stuck to a model that you are better without commitments, safe on your own world not to get hurt but honestly is it worth it? The only thing that you will gain is misery because of loneliness. Friends are good company but nothing can not fulfil the space, the whole of emptiness of not being loved. Love gives you motivation to move forward and not backwards. And therefore makes you a better person; with manners; you get mature within the relationship because you have to keep trying; you have motivation to do things and you know that person will back you up no matter what; and accepts you for who you are and still, you will keep doing your very best to make a better version of yourself because of that person.
Unfortunately people only realise what they had after loosing it; either a relationship or a person. But it is too late. The ones that left move on and the ones that realised once what they did they will be fighting with their own demons and most probably they will never move on although they would say the opposite. Because they will be always wondering what would be like if...
So, my friends, better act from your heart, be kind, be genuine and have confidence on yourself. AND EVERYTHING WILL BE OK.
Have a good one and don't forget to be a lady. Always.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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