Each couple has its own problems but in every couple as the experts said, there are 6 common reasons that they ''feed'' the arguments and brawls before saying ''goodbye''.
There comes a time that the argument becomes brawl, and fighting becomes an everyday thing. And you can't stand each other anymore. ''Let's leave it as it is for the best'', ''Let's go to the lawyer''...
Let's see the 6 reasons that lead to this decision:
Each other take for granted; Biggest trap ever; Wise decision though if you consider that there is no surprise anymore from each other; nothing to know or to expect anymore.
Sex only on anniversaries. Nagging, tiredness, getting bored, all these lead to alienation. Sex becomes an obligation, an extra burden. There is no happiness in bed. Only snoring.
We can't live together. But can we apart? You have that feeling that your partner is distant, not present, he may be in the same house with you but his mind is away; There is no communication between you and him; He does not understand you; you don't understand him.
He involves the children between you and him; Why should they have to be blamed for their parent's fault? Most of the times, parents that are unhappy in their marriage put in the middle the ''civil population'' meaning the kids, and use verbal bombs. Kids deserve to be calm and happy.
You fight and fight all over again without any outcome. You never manage to end up in a solution, and therefore you have to make a step forward for the sake of your relationship, compromise again even a little bit. And you argue again and again for the same things. A painful vicious circle.
Connection is not possible. Communication between you has a low ''signal'', we can also say not at all. You don't talk, you don't exchange your experiences, you don't laugh together. Whatever was that connected you and him or fed your love with life, has gone now. If you want to get back to what you were, the secret is to communicate. Talk with each other honestly.There may be a hope.
Love. Flower Girl. x
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