Tuesday, September 20, 2016

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                     5 Toxic type of people that we should and must fend them off from our life

We all have goals and want to succeed like the rest of the people; most of the times we see around us those who are succeed and happy with their life. Sure, we will take advices from our friends, family and environment not to quit, think positive and give a break to our self when we do mistakes. But we face difficulties during that path. Either from our own fears or our environment. And more specifically I mean the people that we see everyday and talk frequently. Friends, colleagues, family.

The voices that we hear are positive or negative? Are the ones that will make us move forward or backwards? Are the ones that make us optimistic, faithful and strong? Or make us pessimistic and hold us back?

It is important to be willing to succeed our goals; we need people that will hold our hands when we are sad, to smile and just say that everything is going to be O K; people who will urge us to keep going, to keep trying no matter what and not frustrate us. So let's see the 5 toxic type of people who should be out of our life:

The miserable type

He is tired and bored of everything but he never stops complaining. He always sees in everything something bad and ugly. When he fails of course is everyone's else fault except his. When someone tries to assert something, he will judge him/her. Slowly, slowly without realising it we will become like him: negative all the time. In fact they only want a company in to their grimed world. Knowing that there are people like them helps them not to feel alone and to feed their misery.

The jealous type

Is the person that is annoyed by people around him that have, do or live something really good. Is the one that mugs you new purchase on clothing, will make fun of your succeed to minimise your value. He will not be happy on your succeed, he will not congratulate you back when you announce your big news on professional or personal level; he is the type of person that does not value his own competences so he must make you feel less in order he not to feel inadequate.

The unreliable type

You cannot rely on him never; He does not commit, he will not make your life any easier but you on the other hand you should be always available to serve him. And he thinks it's absolutely normal and feels that has no obligation towards you. Has no respect towards you and your priorities - I think you have better things to do rather than dealing with an ungrateful?

The incriminating type

Makes you feel guilty no matter what. The most toxic one. You succeed but it should not make you feel good with your self just because there are people that can not make it. How can you be happy when there are people out there facing difficulties? Or why should you get paid much more when there are people that are unemployed? But we can not accomplish nothing, our dreams, our goals if we start feeling quilt. Leave them boiling in their own misery and keep going.

The apprehensive type

He believes the world around him is threatening. Everything has a bad even catastrophic outcome, always according to him. He is afraid in every step he will make failure and disappointment will be the result so he prefers not to do anything. He sees enemies in every ''corner'' and feels threatened. Is the type of person that instead of ''Good luck'' will say ''Be careful''. Is this that you want to hear?


Life and dreams are our own responsibility and only. Are valuable and we should try to make them real with or without those people. We do not need approval, we do not need to ask them for anything.

So ''clean'' your life from these toxic people the soonest the possible!



Love. Flower Girl. x

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