Is there true love after all?
I see couples that make it; they get old together after facing so many difficulties on their marriage. It is not an easy job after all, being married; I believe is the hardest one. You share your whole life with someone good or bad days, rich or poor; you have each other no matter what. But sometimes you won't make it. Sometimes people fall apart from each other; they stop working on their relationship/marriage. But is this true love? Quitting on someone that you suppose to love?
A recent example is Brad's Pitt and Angelina's Jolie divorce. They have 6 children together - 3 adopted and 3 biological. When she was sick Brad tried so hard to give her strength to face the surgery procedure, she lost weight and was constantly nervous but he was there for her, according to his letter. She, now, on the other hand claims that Pitt is dangerous for their children's safety and that he has cheated on her. What is the truth beyond all this these 2 only know. But it is really sad how 2 people can forget everything, what they shared, and most importantly their love for each other.
How can you be so madly in love with someone and one day quit and forget that love? I guess it was not true love.
When you love someone you want to be better and you try to be better so as your partner/husband/wife to be proud of you. This is true love. You just don't quit your soul mate and say I am no match for you; I am no good for you; No it does work like that. You keep fighting to be better and the love that you share for each other makes you strong to keep going. And if you fall you know that person will grab your hand and say to you ''Everything is going to be O K'' and will hug you. And that makes you on keep going. To be a better version of yourself. Love is the best medicine for everything. It heals every pain in your soul; Gives you motivation to do things; And you know that you are not alone; there is someone in this crazy world out there that loves and supports you in every single step that you make. This is true love for me. But I don't know if it does really exist anymore. When the person that you love quits on you it makes me question and it is really sad. When you only fight and your soul mate not, you are devastated.
People are madly in love, you see them everywhere being affectionate with each other and then pump! Divorce, break ups! And you are wondering: Where has the love gone? It wasn't true love after all. Because when you truly love someone, madly deeply in love you can not imagine living the rest of your life with out that person. You can not imagine your life not seeing his/her face never again, not hearing his/her voice, not hugging him/her on that couch that you were watching T.V. together and having your own kind of conversations; silly, funny conversations. How can you live on without these things? Without your soul mate?
I guess there is no true love nowadays ...
''Love is a soul living in two bodies''.
''When you love someone you know it because you can not express in words what you are feeling for the other person''.
''Immature love is when you say ''I love you because I need you'' - ''Mature love is when you say ''I need you because I love you''.
''When you don't feel love is for ever for the other person, then it has never started''
Love. Flower Girl. x
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